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resant78 45M  
3326 posts
12/15/2016 9:21 pm

At this point in my life I would NOT hire an escort, but I do entertain the thought.

During my mid-20's I spent three days and two nights in Amsterdam and I really, REALLY enjoyed myself.


kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
12/15/2016 9:50 pm

My first instinct is to say no....but you just never know. If it was the only way to get you to go out for a beer and a burger with me, I reckon I'd pay you. Do you take American money still?

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proteus_2a 58M
7979 posts
12/15/2016 10:13 pm

Never had the inclination my lady,
or even the need
But one can never exclude the possibilities

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nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
12/15/2016 10:42 pm

A total No, never have and never will. especially when you turn down sex on daily basis.

I have enough males friends to have sex with, I can't even keep up with them plus the MenNation.com guys


Ienjoythetaste 75M
2560 posts
12/16/2016 1:15 am

Not for sex but would be fun to have a very attractive, tall, curvy, young (18 to 22) lady on my arm and go to a party where my prudish friends are, just to see their reactions.

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NotYetGrey 62M

12/16/2016 5:50 am

Personally no, I would not pay for sex. But that said I am wondering how do you draw the line between paying for sex and bartering for sex. In my younger days there was a time or 2,3 mmm 13-14 that I did car repairs for acquaintances for favors, So did I pay for sex by doing the work or did they pay with sex for my work....chicken or the egg my friends, chicken or the egg?


brandygirasol 54T
673 posts
12/16/2016 6:16 am

I'm A Tranny CD Sissy Gurl And I've Worked As A Paid Professional Escort!


Looknfind18 71M  
4379 posts
12/16/2016 6:19 am

haven't but not to say I never would. depends on the situation I guess.


TicklePlease 56F  
13851 posts
12/16/2016 6:21 am

Probably not.... but there HAVE been those times when I've considered how much fun it might be to pay a super-smoking-hot male escort to accompany me to say.... my 40 year high school reunion!


brandygirasol 54T
673 posts
12/16/2016 6:27 am

Please Allow Me To Clarify I Was A Paid Professional ESCORT (Not A Hooker!) ... Sure I Had SEX If I Consented To It! BTW Nothing Against Sex Workers But For Your Information= ESCORTS Do Exist Out There Guys!


goodatpoetry2 74M
16552 posts
12/16/2016 6:38 am

If I were wealthy enough I might do it from time to time.
It's just a business arrangement really. . Like getting a massage.


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
12/16/2016 7:16 am

I answered "I have" but I guess it depends on what you mean b y "escort". Were just being polite (and maybe dodging around getting this post censored) or did you TRULY mean an escort (companion only - no sex)?

My "yes" refers to going to a legal W-house out in Nevada with several buddies during a convention out there, Quite and adventure and fun! See Paying for It

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April4U2use 43T  
4 posts
12/16/2016 7:35 am

I'm a trans girl, and get offered more sex than I can handle, so I would not pay for it, but I have met some guys, that had they offered to pay me, it would have swayed my decision on not being with them so... In either case, I don't see anything wrong with it at all. I think everyone should be able to do what they want as long as they aren't hurting anyone else. If someone wants to offer tompaynsomeone to be with them, and that person accepts of their own free will, then it should never be a problem.


KItkat1415 61F  
20051 posts
12/16/2016 10:15 am

I know some escorts, and I know plenty of sex workers, so I'm not opposed to the idea of paying for sex.
But... I haven't, and the idea doesn't particularly turn me on.
I guess it is all relative.
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kzoopair 73M/71F
25831 posts
12/16/2016 11:27 am

    Quoting sam19pulsar:
    I am male and would never pay for sex [post 3920468]
Why not, Tiger?

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submokey 69M/62F
10383 posts
12/16/2016 1:00 pm

When I was younger, never needed to pay.......unless you count paying for drinks n dinner.

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or9asm0 45M
52 posts
12/16/2016 1:22 pm

it's better to pay to undress a woman than to dress her up


vopesahe 62F
36414 posts
12/16/2016 2:12 pm

I voted I am female and I would never pay for sex....

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TB5758 65M/67F  
577 posts
12/16/2016 2:41 pm

    Quoting  :

Do you mean you would condone it even though you don't do it personally and therefor you do not condemn those who do? Please clarify, thanks.


sphxdiver 74M
21063 posts
12/16/2016 3:07 pm

I'll admit, yes i have paid in the past.

Why lie about it ?

I don't give a rat's ass what anyone says, there's no such thing as free pussy.

your paying for it one way or the other.


scott6250 61M

12/16/2016 3:15 pm

Never would I do that.

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Nocondomswanted 60F

12/16/2016 3:30 pm

I can't keep up with the free cock out there as it is ... I foresee never having to pay for sex.


ClassicFriction 62M
956 posts
12/16/2016 3:44 pm

I never have, but if she were your identical twin, well then.......


blzcpl 60M/63F  
180 posts
12/16/2016 4:51 pm

We are a couple and neither one of us have, nor would we

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tpro5 61M
90 posts
12/16/2016 5:18 pm

Yes ,, I paid for an escort. She was terrific,no sex involved just stood in at a meeting and dinner as my wife.Had a great time and conversation later on after the b.s. we went to. Meet up with her 6 months later, booked a room for a week-end. had great sex, and great company and it didn't cost a thing above the regular stuff for the stay We are still close..


playandeat 58F
12 posts
12/17/2016 12:53 am

I am a women and I would hire a women to eat me, and do as i say.


feathersnoil4U 73M
43 posts
12/17/2016 2:31 am

does going to massage parlor's count?...\8

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jason2371961 63M
432 posts
12/17/2016 3:56 am

we all pay for sex in one way or another so yes i have paid


4u2lickon 48M
41 posts
12/17/2016 6:49 am

my girl will pay to see that


Discreet999 43M  
120 posts
12/17/2016 10:17 am

As long as you're safe and it's consensual, live and let live.


excaliber2013 66M/58F
334 posts
12/17/2016 11:34 am

As a couple no.


Gentlystoked 47M
72 posts
12/17/2016 11:46 am

I have never hired an "escort." I have visited "red light districts" in various places where it's legitimate and enjoyed my encounters there.

That was my younger self. Trying to satisfy the question: 'what's so good about a pro that it's worth paying for?" The answer is nothing. If anything, the connection desire and mutual attraction may have been missing. Yes, it still works. But, it's not my favorite kind of encounter.

Most of sex for me is pleasuring my woman. Knowing that I'm dealing with a woman that will moan and behave like she's genuinely being pleased, though it's part of the service, is unappealing.


Leegs2012 51M
96137 posts
12/17/2016 12:05 pm

No I never, but I have been to a few functions where people in high positions had many of them at their party's!!! One Holiday party about 4 years ago, I soon as I walked in the lounge there were two sexy women doing a very hot "69" together!! The whole room smelled of Pussy!..and it was wonderful!!


dwz5234 71M
2394 posts
12/17/2016 12:23 pm

if she looked like you i would


Desir4Fire 49M
2387 posts
12/17/2016 1:09 pm

Bucket list item!!! Still working on it!!!


citizen4722 66M  
74582 posts
12/17/2016 2:02 pm

I've never hired an escort but I've certainly thought about it...if I could afford it


racing_dude39 55M
1 post
12/17/2016 3:07 pm

Yes I have, many times. Some of the best sex I have ever had was with a provider. Plus, it's the only way an old fart like me is ever going to get young pussy!


Funtxcplefun 60M/55F  
14 posts
12/17/2016 4:44 pm

As a couple absolutly


boobwhisperer69 61M  
8322 posts
12/17/2016 4:59 pm

You rent cars, don"t you? Not a hole lotta difference in my book! Sometimes you want something hot and new! We are all consenting adults. And it's the oldest profession on the books!


BothwaysYEG 46M  
60 posts
12/17/2016 5:47 pm

I have, on multiple occasions and for both men and women of course.i find it much easier to get what I want in a man by being able to request it in advance


Madfun2475 49M
29 posts
12/17/2016 6:37 pm

i will never be desprite enough to have an escort


nekkedcouple 63M/58F  
85 posts
12/18/2016 5:40 am

My wife and I are too good looking to have to pay for sex! haha


bolingbrook2015 56M
43 posts
12/18/2016 6:22 am

I would hire a male escort for a public function no sex just company

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auburnrox 42F
23 posts
12/18/2016 7:03 am

I know enough people of either sex to drag someone along to a party or event if I needed a friend, the question is sex at the end of it...if you want guaranteed nsa sex then fine.


baldbuddah1959 64M
99 posts
12/18/2016 10:42 am

no matter one way or another we all pay for sex


wickedeasy 74F
32404 posts
12/18/2016 11:39 am

I prefer the gigolo with the shaved head. what's his name?

I would but i'm bdsm so my Dom would have to approve it.

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


VAJR031991 33M  
13 posts
12/18/2016 4:08 pm

No.


69ereatwetpussy 61M
6774 posts
12/18/2016 5:26 pm

Not really in need and there are other ways to be entertained for the money it would take and the fun of the hunt weather I score or not. Have you ever?


bheema_86 37M
17 posts
12/18/2016 10:21 pm

big no to paid pleasure


tastemeY 57M  
148 posts
12/19/2016 3:01 am

I've paid for sex


passionateaction 54M
1575 posts
12/19/2016 4:44 am

I have..and as a relief measure it is effective but only as a last resort


Weavin0311 55M  
16 posts
12/19/2016 6:28 am

I have once, I was looking for something very specific and had the means


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
12/19/2016 1:17 pm

I never have.
There's a certain
evil cruelty in
knowing that's
all that's
left.So I never
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ranchomongo 70M

12/19/2016 2:31 pm

escort? I don t go anywhere that I need an escort..
but pay for sex.. yes..
I have done that..
I met a guy on line that after we chatted for awhile offered his wife.
and seems they both get a kink out of renting her out.

and does massage parlors count?
I have done them too..


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playbuddy125 40M
9 posts
12/20/2016 3:09 am

I never sex in my life so If I need to pay for sex why not? I will pay if i get good body to fuck and lost my viriginty.


babybooty77 40F
1 post
12/20/2016 3:16 am

Nope never paid for sex.
Had plenty of inquiries as to being employed lol.
New Zealand has legalised sex working although you have to apply to the local council for certification if there is more than five workers under one roof.
A lot of girls run there business from home to save on tax and certs.


isobifolks 68M/69F

12/20/2016 6:48 am

For a special occasion, I would definitely do it.


ltrskr 75M

12/20/2016 10:53 am

A man walks into a bar, sets down next to a women:
Would u have sex with me for ten thousand dollars?
She looks at him and says, Yes!
How about a thousand?
She thinks a bit and says, Yeah!
How about a hundred?
She says, Hey what kind of a lady do u think I am????
We've established that, we're haggling price now...........


Electricblues4u 48M
128 posts
12/20/2016 11:43 am

I have certainly entertained the thought... I've come very close while away on work or vacations. Looked through the phonebook even called for specifics but never followed through with it. A comment someone made above hits the nail on the head.... or two comments; one, I know far too many people I could always drag along.... the other..... well I have no face pic so you'll have to take my word for it when I say I'm easy on the eyes and have never had difficulty hooking up. I have friends who pay escorts occasionally for the privacy aspect...... As of yet I have not, HOWEVER; I'm open to the possibility!


flasher4u3 66M  
106 posts
12/20/2016 1:12 pm

I wish I could find one in my area. I would love to hire an escort!


jackhammerdeluxe 60M
140 posts
12/20/2016 5:50 pm

escort or not. I prefer a woman who stands out, confident, and sexual. Should ask how many men have been escorts. Not many.


cocacock190 41M

12/20/2016 6:41 pm

hi pretty

i love this site


passionateaction 54M
1575 posts
12/21/2016 6:30 am

True Missy..probably because it loses its effectiveness with every time without the connection and is also expensive if one factors in a good escort who is doing it of her/his own free will and for her/his own objectives.


OldrHarleyGuy 72M

12/21/2016 6:33 am

Pay for an escort, sure, have done that back when I was younger and out on the road and didn't want to spend the night alone. Would I do it again now, later in life, sure, if the right one comes available.
I have an old girl friend that worked as an escort in her younger years and is still a pretty hott gal and is contemplating going back into the trade, once her divorce is out of the way, so I'm seriously planning on moving her back to the area and providing her room and board, so guess that means I would be hiring her also.


DoctorBooty 43M  
6426 posts
12/21/2016 11:51 am

I have thought about it, but it would require a specific situation for me to want to pay for it. I usually don't need to.

I have thought of being a gigolo like the show, I see you've watched it alot, but my self-confidence is not quite high enough I think.


smallfour5 65M
76 posts
12/21/2016 1:02 pm

in the position where wife is ill and not have had sex for 14 months now, yes i would but still would feel guilty i think


primo1rr 44M
61 posts
12/21/2016 11:47 pm

I guess in a way we all pay for pleasure


Mystic_Writer 50M  
4241 posts
12/22/2016 9:00 am

Do BunnyRanch Babes count?


JayJ3333 49M
24 posts
12/22/2016 7:31 pm

I am sure to do it in very near future. planning for while?


pleagain 58M

12/24/2016 2:19 am

so fuckin would if i had a chance. sadly i live in a small town so there is nothing like that around here sighhh. iam so fuckin tired deppressed and being alone. and jerkin my dick off all the time.


S_H_A_N_N_O_N 48T

12/24/2016 12:43 pm

HILARIOUS how most of you are not having problems hooking up but yet your on MenNation.com.

You pay someone to drill a hole in your tooth, fix your car, cut your hair...etc

Yet you don't wanna pay to get your dick sucked or to shove your dick inside someone pretty LOL you all got life fucked up

FREE has no value and SEX is never free


allfours4you 54F
3 posts
12/24/2016 4:34 pm

The majority of men just want sex, companionship or both.

They don't want the hassle and stress a relationship may cause. So I don't see the issue or problem with the escort.

You are essentially paying him or her to leave.


ontdavid17 65M

12/24/2016 5:00 pm

havent yet but definitely would


Machetes24 49F
14 posts
12/25/2016 7:50 am

I think you can do with ur ass watever the hell you want ...freedom


zeke53028 65M  
1135 posts
12/25/2016 3:15 pm

I paid a prostitute a few times when I was in the army, but that was years ago. I like the emotional part of sex.


Fantasy4Play69 47F
1 post
12/25/2016 8:19 pm

No doubt... be assured pleasant enough company i imagine


couplibert81 43M/40F
22 posts
12/26/2016 2:45 am

Sure it could be very exciting the best is to give her so much pleasure!!!!


bisexualcharle69 59M

12/27/2016 5:31 am

if I have to pay for sex we may as well be married.


freewilly7575 49M
44 posts
12/27/2016 10:22 am

as long as shes hot


golosa1115 62F
1066 posts
12/27/2016 11:47 am

Have never done it, the thought never hit my mind, and I never thought it a good idea. But lately with all my issues, maybe paying for a person to give me a one night not one hour will release all this built up tension from the past few years of serving and not being served. It would be interesting, maybe not judgmental, wouldn't mind probably letting him eat me and a nice 69. Which I haven't done in almost a decade.


bucknaked50again 63M
106 posts
12/27/2016 3:45 pm

For me, this is all about being wanted. So to pay someone means I'm not important to her, not her focus, she doesn't desire me ....


desire2share63 60M/57F
68 posts
12/27/2016 4:12 pm

Don't think I would hire one, wish my wife were one, though!

Mr Desire


S_H_A_N_N_O_N 48T

12/28/2016 7:51 am

NEVER CONFUSE Sex for Love.............I think 99% got it wrong

Sex is like a activity it can have emotion but it is not Love


StickyLips007 55F
231 posts
12/28/2016 2:04 pm

I thought about paying a guy for sex many times in my 20's and 30's. I've battled obesity my entire life and felt worthless for a lot of that. I grew up hearing from my family that no man would ever want me if I didn't lose weight, and I believed it. I was a virgin until I was 30 and I thought about paying for sex because I thought that's the only way I could get it. I joined MenNation.com for the first time instead (mind you, this was 15 years ago now) and found that men did want to have sex with me. Granted, it wasn't great sex and I settled for what I thought I could get until I finally got my sex life right a few years ago.

Now that that's all behind me and I'm in tune with my sexual power, I would still hire someone. I'd be paying for the exact experience I want. I don't find it demeaning at all to pay for sex or be paid for sex (not that I have been). Several people have said, and I agree, that there's no such thing as "free sex". No strings attached does not exist. Everyone wants something, whether it's money, love, companionship, erotic sensation, passion...there's something.


astro5870 75M
40 posts
12/28/2016 8:58 pm

Totally have paid for sex and probaly will continue to do so, as it gives yousuch a wide variety of ladies, ages, races etc. One left on my bucket list is a TS/TG as round here they are very hard to find


touchNtaste1 43M
15 posts
12/29/2016 1:48 pm

It has crossed our minds more than once, We were so tired of getting canceled on at the last minute....


Zane492 67M
15 posts
1/1/2017 7:01 am

I haven't paid for sex as the sole purpose of our meeting. That being said, I was in a long term marriage (30 years), with children and paid dearly for that. I dated many ladies before and after my marriage and there were and are financial and emotional costs associated with that also. I did not get into the kind of sexual dating which this site and others supposed to project until after marriage and a few vanilla relationships. NSA, well to a certain extent...there always seem a certain amount present.
Right from the beginning part of our involvement after my marriage, I specifically told them that is any long term healthy relationship was to thrive, it would be the decision of both of us and not just the lady. Well they all agreed at the beginning and during the course of the relationships the lines in the sand kept being re-drawn more towards the lady than mine. To me, a lady should want to be with me as much as I want to be with her and at this stage in my life, I should not have to pay just for the "privilege" of sex and or companionship. Is that not prostitution? Can two people just enjoy the moments they spend together and really enjoy themselves without all the "strings" involved. Well yeah in a perfect world.
If a lady does not want to be with me, then I do not want to be with her either emotionally or sexually. I just find it to be so much better living mostly alone and happy venturing out every now and then and dipping my toes into the water.
I currently have a couple of sexually minded ladies which I satisfy that part of my life. Will I ever find my true soulmate? Prospects don't look too promising now. And with so many ladies not financially secure...well let's say they have alterier motives.


lov2showit 71M  
76 posts
1/1/2017 7:43 am

In response to Miss Shy, I agree the flow is very important, we don't want to cause any distractions. ...\8


Mendiego9529 43M
18 posts
1/5/2017 2:50 am

I have n the experience was not worth it


montecarlo37 45M
298 posts
1/11/2017 5:28 am

sex for me is something out of this world.. its god gift and you can never pay for it.. i Really value each and every encounter.. so can never pay and lower its standard...


Popppo1 44M
1 post
1/12/2017 9:37 pm

It is not something that has to be done but it's been here since the first day and I don't see how it can stop


Joepasto 50M
749 posts
1/14/2017 9:19 am

It is very nice, sometime to have a professional in a threesome with your partner, she makes very funny
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MIBKnight1 53M
78 posts
1/15/2017 8:29 pm

I would do with out before I pay for it. You never know when you are going to end up as part of a pay for play sting round up...hope you have a good lawyer!!!


Azira111 38M/37F
1 post
1/20/2017 7:00 pm

yes we strongly agree with Shannon , free has no value


Puzzled72 51M
5 posts
1/20/2017 11:23 pm

At some point it can be necessary to do so...


bigbossoutlaw 45M
1 post
1/25/2017 5:54 pm

The comments on this are definitely very interesting, I think many people have a judgemental attitude on either the people providing the service or the person seeking it, and a lot of us have deep convictions about it for one reason or another. Personally, and I'm sure other men would agree, one way or another we always pay. Whether a date, a gift, and so on. I respect the fact that its cut and dry to get an escort. Both parties know exactly what they will get. No games, amd i respect the skill set the women (or any sex trade professional) have, and i think its that skill set that is what someone pays for. For an hour you feel like a king! Then back to normal life...


GrahamGabriel 34M
2 posts
2/20/2017 1:22 pm

Having read through all this, i have gone from "I would" to "I should probably start charging as there are a Lot of very good arguments here" Probably better i finish fixing up my looks before i do that.

But in all seriousness, Babylon's whores embodied it best, people will pay for many kinds of company, be it erotic and intimate, conversational, general touching and tenderness, Intellectual debate.... They say never do something you are good at for free, when your skill is people skills or advice or whatever, wouldn't escorting be the correct answer? if you wish to enjoy an evening is it better to go to a concert of professional musicians or your local amateur garage bands? Is company not to be measured in the same way? those that are social, or philosophical, or romantic, or sexual for a casual hobby, or those that treat it as a mastery, ever to improve and refine, something worthy of Professional attention?


Nudezeus 45M
24 posts
3/3/2017 12:08 am

Not I've never paid to have sex ... in fact I have been for some time .... stripper, entertainer women and gigolo ...
but that's enough ...{=}


JayJ3333 49M
24 posts
9/19/2017 3:44 pm

each to ther own. so many reasons why you should and the same why you should not.


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