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Does anyone else fee like they're living a double life?  

butttoyboy 59M
37 posts
3/25/2014 9:32 am
Does anyone else fee like they're living a double life?
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funbitimes 45M
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1329 posts
3/25/2014 8:44 pm

 I feel for you. I told my wife from day one that I am bi and like to sleep with others. I told her emotionally I would be faithful but physically I need others. She said that was fine as long as I always told her who I was with and when. Now she fucks others too


butttoyboy 59M
337 posts
3/26/2014 7:31 am
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Thank you for the thoughts, I really appreciate your support.

You are absolutely correct about the hurt it could cause, and I really do take great pains to ensure I never cause my wife pain of any kind. And I'm especially careful about STD's!

Thanks for the invite. I've only been to NYC, but if I ever get up your way, I'll let you know.


butttoyboy 59M
337 posts
3/26/2014 7:35 am
    Quoting funbitimes:
    I feel for you. I told my wife from day one that I am bi and like to sleep with others. I told her emotionally I would be faithful but physically I need others. She said that was fine as long as I always told her who I was with and when. Now she fucks others too
You were VERY smart!! I wish I had had that foresight and been as honest. I think at the time I was in a bit of denial, which is never a good thing, and now I have to live with my decisions. I'm glad for you and your wife, it sounds like a good arrangement. I'll just have to be a bit jealous!


butttoyboy 59M
337 posts
3/31/2014 10:38 am
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That's very cool! I'd love to develop friendships with people as kinky as I am. Even if you never have sex with them, I would think it would be great fun and a wonderful release to be able to talk about mutual interests that you can't talk about with other friends. I have had a couple of e-mail friends over the years which have been a lot of fun, one I still stay in contact with. So I'll keep looking and being open to what cums along!


sweet_VM 65F
81699 posts
6/13/2014 11:04 am

 What Sandra said is true.. I seen it first hand as well.. Friendship is very strong and real.. hugs V

Kinky is good
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butttoyboy 59M
337 posts
6/16/2014 7:38 am

 Thank you for the comment. I believe Sandra is correct too and hope I may find some sort of situation that will work for my life. I keep looking and hoping...


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