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Dear Diary.....9/24/2011  

KrystiKakess 51T
44 posts
9/24/2011 10:01 pm
Dear Diary.....9/24/2011

Wow, I am seriously dumbfounded. Found out the bf is cheating, imagine that. Cruising sites and hooking up. I even told him his happiness was important to me, and if so we can have an open relationship. Why does he have to lie? He has always told me, he considers me his wife. Guess I should have known. He has been married 4 times and cheated on everyone of them. Duh!

I have no idea what to do. Put up with it? Learn to live with it? Leave? Give up on love? I don't feel at home anymore. Everything I have known and lived with for the last year is a lie. </3

Kenjade 40M
2 posts
9/24/2011 10:19 pm

 Wow, What an idiot. You are in my area, and Already you seem like y type of Open Minded girl.

I almost agreed to the same thing myself with my ex.

I'd love to talk some more if you want, I'll watch your blog but I'd love to chat for sure, Y is Kenshinffx2 if you wanted to, just let me know, It doens't have to be about meeting, just to talk.

I hope you start feeling better.


disguy33 46M
6 posts
9/24/2011 10:58 pm

 baby run run run run run!!! cheats never change!! had my share of them.
trust?!!? for me trust is huge! if you beleive you can trust him again maybe. my exp. says I cant that is the one deal breaker for me. esp. being as open and honest with any partner I have.
the other option open relationship. if it works for you. some it can some it wont. be open about what your doing. bring it home, and share. jealousy comes into play with certain people. thats how I live it open if that is how they are tell me so I can get myself some action too or bring it home to share. call me weird but just prefer you ask. if its someone I know ask me if its ok. been let down before so upfron and honest is only way for me.
my advice run. go get you some, and move on!!


razzley2k 61M
45 posts
9/25/2011 12:58 am

 I'd love to think you could salvage the relationship ... maybe with an open relationship but since you've already put that up for an option and he cheated anyway... probably not.... also, once the trust has gone... It's hard to get it back ...


u4icxtc9i4unow 56M
13 posts
9/25/2011 1:34 am

 Choices:

1. Live with it and get over it

2. RUN! It is true, cheaters do not change, especially once they develop a taste for it.


biATXguy 55M
45 posts
9/30/2011 7:02 am

 Sorry you are having to go through this, you don't deserve it. Hopefully you are in a position where leaving is a viable option. If you are dependent on him financially, this may be harder and require sacrifice. But what is the value of your happiness?


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