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Rogerrabbit235 54M

8/11/2019 6:11 am

I would have to say they read but they ignore lol. Sorry.


Mikemike107015 53M  
136 posts
8/11/2019 6:17 am

It is quite annoying when people don't read your profile and message you. I get hit up by men all the time and my profile clearly tells men not to waste their time. I also don't like friend requests from people out of the blue which is another thing my profile clearly states. Yet...the requests keep coming. Long story short...i feel your pain. ✌


NewtimeNJ 57M

8/11/2019 6:19 am

I believe to answer your question in short verse would do you an injustice. Most people on these sites believe that if you send out your nets far and wide they will catch someone.
I do not think male/female who are in the hunt really read anything as they are on a speed way to find their next conquest.
So I wish you well and hope that the one will come your way or at least as you say will read before they write something of no consolation to you.
Enjoy your weekend.


benard69 66M/66F  

8/11/2019 6:26 am

Reading is the easy part...Comprehension....Not So Much!


jolielaide 52F  
1754 posts
8/11/2019 6:43 am

whether the profile gets read or not some guys want to shoot their shot with the women on here in the hopes that said female might lower her expectations, just maybe she might be willing to go along with whatever fuckery guy has in mind. from what i have seen, women of a certain age don't and are not looking to do random (strangers) hookups; not a safe behavior. and yet that is what the majority of the men on here seem to be offering; play time, hookup, sex with whatever female is available and will take them up on their short term offer.

btw, you have a great profile pic


bitchkitty2017 71F

8/11/2019 6:44 am

They do know how to read yes but are so freaking lazy ..its like those guys who message a woman who they think is gonna get them off while they sit lazy asses on the couch ..that way even if they are only an hours drive are too lazy to get their asses up and meet ..it gets real old fast ...


Sugarfluff 53F

8/11/2019 6:51 am

I clearly state I'm looking for someone single and not involved with anyone as I don't need the drama yet I constantly get married men and those with live in girl friends message me. They always think that we will make an exception for them I guess,


ombnd 61M

8/11/2019 6:52 am

While I agree with most of the comments - as a man whose gotten it wrong- the IM system filter doesn’t work well and often people who do not share my interests are in the list of possible people to IM. So give people who can read and comprehend a break and just hit the decline with no thanks or not interested button. If you’re sexy and you know it someone will take notice on a sex/ hook up meeting sight....this is not a PG dating sight. I wish you all the best.


oozyjuicy 60M

8/11/2019 7:00 am

if youre just a standard member you cant read most profiles


sweetyman1212 57M

8/11/2019 7:21 am

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Luv2bottom4u2 67M  
1875 posts
8/11/2019 7:36 am

To answer your question, sure men know how to read . All we see is " YES" ! Ha Ha


WePlayNakedDoYou 56M
195 posts
8/11/2019 7:45 am

it's not the reading, it's the comprehension. They always assume that you wrote one thing but certainly it doesn't apply to them because their penis is more special.

I hope and I pray for a Hester to win just one more "A", the sadder but wiser girl for me.


gismeuc 63M  
23 posts
8/11/2019 7:59 am

it's funny you could write basicly nothing on your profile & don't even provide a pic....and you will find some idiot who messages you with the comment. "i like your profile". and being this is one of the few sites where non-paying members can still interact with others, it tends to attract all those who think they can get a hook up without the wife or gf knowing, and it's free. they see that as a possible win-win for them. being this is the internet, people will say or do the stupidest shit, because they know they will never see anyone on here. same goes with gender preference, some will specify they are interested in only men,or women....ect. and they will still have a room full those trying to hook up even if they match the profile request. you are asking irresponsible people to act responsibly...not going to happen.


MyBaffies 54M
4983 posts
8/11/2019 8:14 am

Some guys will just be playing the numbers game - send out enough messages whether they are a match or not and you might end up with a reply.

Others will just think they are God's gift and how dare you for not contacting them first as you are obviously missing out.

And yes, most wont read a profile even if the site lets them.

Baffies

Link to my blog: MyBaffies


capox1 73M

8/11/2019 8:34 am

    Quoting  :

correct- we all see that when it comes to the current rage about What Trump said or what the media portrays- on MenNation.com I get lots of flirts from people who are wat to far away - that's why I usually read a few blogs and comment if I want- other wise I look and am glad I don't have any of the drama that goes with trying to hook up-


Tanya_CD4fun 45T
14 posts
8/11/2019 9:03 am

Omg! I get crazy stuff like this often and it's ridiculously annoying.
Good post and i am a guy. Lol.
How about the guys who want to hook up immediately AND dont have photos?
Grrr...


milk69man69 59M  
90 posts
8/11/2019 9:51 am

Hi march,
These are the guys who have no respect for the other person. These people are generally selfish an immature in nature.

Chances are, that same guy sent that same non specific message to many other ladies and is just playing the odds that eventually, someone will say yes. It's a fairly pathetic plea if you ask me.

An intelligent guy who is really interested in you, would have made a specific comment about your pic, something in your profile that you might have in common... you get the picture, right?

I do read the profiles and if the profile does fit what I'm looking for, then I wont make contact with her. There is no reason to.

And by the way, I love the heels in your pic, and even more-so, what they are being used for! Very nice indeed.


Chucklesb4000 45M

8/11/2019 10:03 am

I'm a standard member. When I did have gold, I would read profiles and respect the ladies wishes.


redrockrascal 65M
23580 posts
8/11/2019 10:19 am

I use points to read women's profiles - IF (BIG IF) there is something written there. And, IF (BIG IF) it is accurate. I've met women who wrote nice profiles and they were not much like what they wrote. So taking profiles (male or female) with a handful, or more, of salt is an unwritten requirement here.

When the going gets weird, the weird turn pro.

The only thing we have to fear is fear itself.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
8/11/2019 1:17 pm

You could always participate in finding someone you like by reading profiles and reaching out.It would certainly put an end to some of this.Your profile seems written to attract this sort of thing.Sadly it'll keep happening either until you've blocked everyone or take on some of the responsibility of finding your unique preference it what you're after!

Using more than all the road!


FresnoWoman 53F
883 posts
8/11/2019 1:27 pm

Makes me think of that old Calvin & Hobbes cartoon where Calvin flips through a book really fast and Hobbes says, "Reading goes faster if you don't sweat comprehension." Lotta Calvins on here, ugh.


s2ndegree 65M
9800 posts
8/16/2019 5:15 am

Free hookers? You have me sorely mistaken I'm afraid.
I guess whatever hurts.

Using more than all the road!


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