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Pleasureinc 60M  
2200 posts
4/26/2021 11:47 am

I would enjoy having a female reach out first, and I have appreciated when my dates offer to go dutch/split the bill. Not offended at all. I agree with you that a man may be rather weak or insecure if this gesture offended him. Agree that there are so many fakes on this site that a woman who is more forward would be refreshing, Joy.


H0rn3yguy66 57M
457 posts
4/26/2021 11:49 am

Nothing wrong with old school values, but I do not mind a lady making the first move....I can be shy and do not like the thought of rejection....or making a fool of myself (which can be easy lol). Stay well!


arascal2 61M
96 posts
4/26/2021 11:50 am

I would let you catch me , wouldn't put up much of a fight either .


nicelipss66 47F
24236 posts
4/26/2021 11:59 am

On this site now days I do not contact first. In most cases I don't even acknowledge most emails sent to me. just delete delete and more delete.

Outside from here. in real life opportunity. If I like the guy or find him hot. I make sure to give him my number. That if he says okay to it. I know no shame or fear.


benard69 66M/66F  

4/26/2021 12:12 pm

Nothing wrong with up front communication and old school values..Lifes to short to wait around..


Story435 76M
3791 posts
4/26/2021 12:23 pm

Hi Joy!
Home now have a very good weekend with friend.
I would like if a lady made the first move nothing wrong with that. She may not get far but it's ok. Just don't like young ladies doing that seem their are up to something if you know what I mean.
Hope family is doing better!
Butch


AdventurousGuy07 59M
672 posts
4/26/2021 12:47 pm

"How do you feel when or if the tables are turned and a woman pursues you? Do you like it?"

I love it !! ... I think its great when a woman "goes for it" and woos and pursues a guy she is interested in...

The times have changed... relationships have changed... lots of people are in open, alternate and adventurous relationships and lifestyles... Life is short, enJOY the ride !!!


CedarsPrince 44M
1608 posts
4/26/2021 12:59 pm

So gents : How do you feel when or if the tables are turned and a woman pursues you? Do you like it? One who is real, not a scammer, fake or bot?

I like it if if the lady makes the initial approach and contacts me. One who is real and not a fake scamming catfish or robot

Always a pleasant surprise


donsv1962 61M

4/26/2021 1:02 pm

I like it when I am pursued by a lady. Gives her more of a chance to tell me what she wants to know and for me to tell her a bit about me.

I want to take you into the fiery lair of steamy sexual delight on this hot sultry night.


DiscreetQuirky 55M
280 posts
4/26/2021 1:18 pm

I like that "iron sharpens iron" idea. I defintely seek an equal in a woman. I'm fine if a woman wants to pursue me.


elderberry50 73M

4/26/2021 4:09 pm

All the old school, women I've met didn't hesitate to get down to business


peladodel56 67M
10340 posts
4/26/2021 4:17 pm

Si una mujer se acerca a mi para decirme su interés, me halaga mucho porque soy interesante para alguien. No me ha sucedido, lo que quiere decir que no soy interesante... ja, ja. pero tengo esperanza que suceda... ha de ser muy excitante, creo.


CleavageFan4U 67M
69374 posts
4/26/2021 5:25 pm

I'm not sure how I'd feel about a lady making the first move, since IT HAS NEVER HAPPENED! (I think I'd be fine with it.)

Every initial email I send to anyone here contains this at the bottom - PS: I'm not so presumptuous as to send a friend request even before we've chatted - I hope that makes sense to you.

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pacnwlover42 55M
9808 posts
4/26/2021 7:24 pm

I do like to be pursued by women and I might be naked when they catch me.

Funny women are incredibly sexy!


lok4fun500 M
51906 posts
4/26/2021 7:31 pm

I consider myself as old school ......
I would be flattered ..


hippiechick1967 60F  
13154 posts
4/26/2021 9:37 pm

I have pursued men I was interested in.
I like it when I am being pursued.

Elevate me...


agelesssexylegs 80F
1145 posts
4/26/2021 10:18 pm

Oh still have some old fashioned values that i live by,toyboys do often get a shock of the things i tend to do to them,and,why not pursue or in my case prey,have no qualms making the initial contact on here or out in the real world as if you do not ask,you will never know,maybe why i tend to veer towards the foreign ones who have no shame,mmmm


insatiable_man2 65M
2032 posts
4/26/2021 11:40 pm

I love being chased or persued. Flattering and hot
There is something about being desired and desiring.
Hi Shortcake


easyrider4008 67M
2562 posts
4/27/2021 12:52 am

Oh yes, ask me out any time you like, challenge me with your aura, intimidate me with your sexiness. xoxo


anastasia666 45F
2231 posts
4/27/2021 2:33 am

Joy,

Happy Tasty Tuesday !! I love the subject of this blog. I admit it, I am a girly girl Princess-y type..I wear pink, I blush deeply, loyal and treat others with respect. I have let men know that I am interested and it was nice. I do not think men should have to do all the work, pay equally for a first meeting/date especially if you have to travel to do so. I prefer older men as they are more secure and know exactly how to treat a woman. I like men who know they are men and not afraid to be so. If I saw a man I wanted than I would let him know..If he was not ready or available than I could chose to wait until he was or move on..Where there is 1 there is More..I would never let someone's lack of attention or interest make me doubt myself..

Never be intimidated by others feelings about You and never let yourself down by being pushy or intimidating to others. Never let anyone put a dimmer on your light or force you to dim yourself..If you want something or someone go for it..as My parents used to say "All they can do is tell you NO." and believe Me, that is something ALL of Us can survive..If that is the worst you hear..than you are a very lucky person.

Yes, Old fashioned, smoky voiced ,100 % genuine RedHead, Pink wearing little Princess type..who given the chance will worship a man , the Right Man, into a state of Bliss ..

Hugs to My Brave & Daring, Sexy Real RedHead Twin,

Ana6

I done made the devil a deal
He made me pretty
He made me smart


Weeload2 60M
1104 posts
4/27/2021 2:33 am

Who me ? Chased ? Like she is in the car behind me with those flashy light things on top so when I pull over I am going to get it ? Yikes.. I would be so criminal !
Ya right.. up until they get to the STOP sign. The same stop sign where I get the sarcasm "Oh you got a wife"
That's when they turn off the flashy lights and go back to where they came from after I was issued the stop sign warning.... story of my life

♫ Run for your life ♫ ~ Run To The Hills by Iron Maiden


𝕋𝕙𝕒𝕟𝕜𝕤 𝕗𝕠𝕣 𝕓𝕖𝕚𝕟𝕘 𝕪𝕠𝕦


MrWrong4RghtNow 57M
2439 posts
4/27/2021 2:51 am

I like a woman who knows what she wants. Truth be told, I have never made the first move. Admittedly I'm attracted to out going ladies since I'm more reserved.

My name is MrWrong and I approved this comment


Weeload2 60M
1104 posts
4/27/2021 5:37 am

    Quoting  :

.. and from my stand point it is sooo easy to spot the truly fake women on here. They post on and on about guys only getting a hold of them for sex. They want conversation yadda yadda yadda etc.... So ya strike up a conversation with them and immediately by their response you know you are labeled or judged as I say. Total rejection no matter the fact or humor one presents. They are so judgemental they think they will be crucified by god for defiling my partner just because they have to talk normally to me. I get those responses so judgemental and severe that I just wanna stuff a box of maxi-pads up their butt and duct tape them into a corner until they learn how to cope with civilization or life as most normal people know it. In a reply to me if their first words are negative like "I don't...." or "That's not....". The conversation is turned because I have been judged and I will not stand by carrying out conversations where I need to constantly defend myself over their judgement from the get go. Why they are single is because of their own hate inside. Way to judgemental to be attached to anyone if you ask me.... no fun at all

~Wee~

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