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Here Here! Well said and agree 100% It just plain sucks when this happens, for crying out loud we are all "mature" adults
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7/30/2017 1:18 pm |
I think the online 'filtering' process is very different from the in person process. I think were much quicker to let go of online connections quicker than ones offline. Though I do remember a woman I chatted with on the blogs often as we had a Summer vacation place we both did yearly and then one day she disappeared. Didn't know what happened until a year later when she said Hi and explained the horrible experience she had with a stalker from here. Sometimes there are legit excuses like that time but usually it's just people can't handle the thought of conflict.
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I wouldn't do that to you! Yeah it sucks that it's a habit for both Men and Women now a days.
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This is the difference between the online world and the person to person world. My experience is that in the online world everything is so impersonal and the addicts are hiding behind their screen with a continued self approval of their lack of accountability. When people meet person to person and have actual real conversations, there's more room for actual sharing of heart and soul. It takes courage to meet person to person ... not so much from behind the keyboard. Ghosting is always wrong and my approach is "good riddens" Rudi
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this happens to everyone and its hurtful and inconsiderate i wish people were nicer i cant say that i never ghosted anyone but i might of not had a relationship and only talked briefly cuz u get stalkers too . thats the other thing if you talk to them to have closer and discuss a break the other person should respect the boundries esp if its a clean break no kids no pets no house that means just let them go its just over and dont give them the satisfaction of letting them think they rent space in ur head either. hope you feel better some break ups took years for me to get over literally so i know what you mean but no matter what u do if you love them its a 5 stage greiving process you have to go through.
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totally agreed with that. The worst that can happen is being ghosted. If you want to break up, at least have the courage to say so. Not every relationship is meant to last. And it is okay to end one if any side does not wish to continue. But just simply disappear gives you the feeling that you don't even deserve a notice. That really hurts. It happens to both males and females although males usually have less courage to say that.
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9/4/2021 11:08 am |
I agree with you. I have just become active again after an absence. I send out messages which I must admit I don't know how effective it is., but if they have shown interest and I reply most times they don't respond back. At least there have been a couple who have been kind enough to thank me for my interest but I am not for them and I really appreciate that. I would love to have a conversation with you LooLoo. I am local so maybe we can chat
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