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Och McToke, I daresay the McBiggles (BiggLala) would talk to you about this 'til the cows come home, seems that becoming inured to the various approaches guys make here is an endemic problem for you ladies....... The way I view it these days is that on the rare occasion that someone interesting does pop up well then that's an unexpected bonus.......
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I believe that you have been being hit on by guys that have one thing only on their mind. That can tend to create the apathy and jaded feeling that you are feeling. I hope that you can find the person that clicks with you. Good Luck.
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2/23/2021 2:44 pm |
It's my fingers that get tired after the first 3 sentences. Not to mention that damm auto complete.
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Could well be for the time being you are jaded yet being aware of this I think just shows how difficult it is to find any connection that is meaningful at times. There's a reason millions of poems, songs & stories have been written over thousands of years dealing with relationship's & all their complexities so I wouldn't necessarily give up the chase so easily. Life is very cyclical as you well know.
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Breath deep, pause, relax, reboot. All in good time, all in good measure. Take a break, do something else, and come back later. Just a suggestion, my two cents.
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Perfect answer!! I can't tell people enough how many times we have the same conversation over and over on here. The approaches are different, but the center of it is the same as if they have the same playbook of notes. The second most redundant thing is that they go almost instantly to talking about how they will have sex or what they will do with us and again the same words are used over and over - squirting, exploding, bulging, throbbing, engorged, blah blah blah. It is like watching the same movie 5000 times and it is totally boring. ALL people can do positions and crap. It is the person that matters and so many forget that on here. I know they see 'sex site' and they don't think beyond they want sex and assume we do to so we will have sex with anyone that asks. Now, with that said, yes it sounds totally jaded, but that is how 95% of our messages go on here with people. It is very difficult to not be ready for that. As BiggLala said that is why we start to just ignore or not answer anyone outside of what our profile states. Men don't want to be ignored, no one does, but if our profile says what we are looking for, or not, then writing to ask it again is lame. If the profile says no one over/under an age and you are outside of that then there is no real reason to write and ask us if we will consider it. Yes, there may be that 1 in 1000 that will change it, but you do nothing but tick off the other 999 that won't. Men get this when they are contacted and 999 of them are fake and they are angry because they really want just that 1. It is difficult on the internet when people have lost social graces and forget that profiles are there for a reason. No matter what the sign on the door says, in this case 'sex site', that doesn't mean people don't have preferences. Many a man is straight and they don't want the gay men contacting them!! lol
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