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Should men have the option to not pay support? Yes.
Should men have the option to not pay support? Yes. Paying support should be an option. Not mandatory by law. Generally, who will choose not to pay support? Men [mostly] whom a woman should have thought harder about getting married to, and/or having [with]. No such thing as deadbeat dad unless a woman makes a deadbeat dad, by mating with a deadbeat. In the 1990's if a woman and man have sex [dated], and she says she is using birth control, but really isn't, she has the right to raise the without his knowing he even has as a , and then to sue him for retroactive support, even 10 to 20 years later. That man should not be held legally responsible for any payments whatsoever. Women can trick or r*pe a man, or a male minor , and he could be held legally responsible [liable] for providing monetary support. Courts have ruled that way. But the court has also ruled, [for the woman] if the sexual intercourse results in the birth of a is involuntary , or without consent, a woman may have just cause for refusing to support the . Apparently in the U.S. , "The best interest of the ", [when it comes to support] only applies to the male. Not only are men responsible for whom they did not consent to fathering, but the male is also responsible for whom are not even his genetically. Apparently then , women have reproductive rights , men have responsibilities. And that's just wrong. |
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I have to disagree with you on this one my ex husband tried everything to get out of paying child support for our four children, even made me take paternity tests when they all came back 99.9% his. And then when he had a job he would quit. I successfully raised our four children by myself with no help from him physically or emotionally in fact he damaged our sons by abandoning them on a street corner not once but twice in the same day. And as far as child support goes, men should pay for their children, my ex quit every job that he had, I did get half of his postal retirement though, but that wasn't much help really. Hell he died still owing me child support!!! This really irritates me as there are a lot of good men out there that are paying child support that don't have to they choose to and that makes them an upstanding man in my book. If the children are not theirs I don't think they should HAVE TO PAY for them. But DAMN IT if they ARE THEIR KIDS then hell yea they should pay for their kids, its bad enough that some men don't even have any relationship with their children, why should all the mothers have to financially and physically and emotionally support their children all by themselves. So Kudos to all the men and women who support their children!!!
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DNA tests for paternity should be compulsory at birth to prevent paternity fraud. Women who try to trick a man into paying for someone else's child should be charged with fraud. Blowing your load inside a woman and just trusting her not to have a baby deserves a stupidity tax. Following my advice may cause injury, insanity, financial loss, hemorrhoids, death and superpowers
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6/4/2019 12:07 am |
alright ... First: i have two kids and i am supporting both...the younger one is NOT MINE however i chose to support and set an example for him after his parents proved themselves to be basically unfit. Both my kids share the same biological mother ---my ex. The younger child's father is currently in prison serving a sentence for enticing minors online (personally i think all who commit such crimes should be publicly burned at the stake but thats just MY view)... moving along... My stepson's father is also a woman beater and the very last thing i wanted is him to be raised by one of THOSE to think that beating those he loved was OK ....so i took over when they essentially walked away...and i am GLAD I DID My life has been so enriched by his and my daughter's presences i have matured and grown over the years that they have been in my life....SURE its been a HARD SLOG but i think my two will be wonderful Adults when i am finished Second: eh i think it should run BOTH ways MOTHERS who desert their kids (they exist out there) should pay for em too if you choose to put your uncapped penis into a lady and create a baby with her you BOTH should accept the consequences and pay for the raising of that kid if you choose to be the absentee biological parent and HEY about those who are "wrongly" assigned paternity? there are DNA tests that establish it nowadays and all you as a man have to do is contact the local state Child Support Enforcement Division and DISPUTE paternity and demand a test be performed. most boys and girls past puberty can biologically father or mother a child....however it takes a grown real MAN and WOMAN to stick around and RAISE that kid and make all the sacrifices needed to do it so that that has a good example to follow from both parents
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total fucking bullshit your shoved you cock in it and made a child not a chils fault both of you were probably idiots but yes you need to support that child and hope it grows up to be better than than the parents who brought it into the world
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According to the organization Fathers and Families, tens of thousands of men have been wrongly assigned paternity and are compelled by law to pay years of child support for children whom DNA test have shown are not his own.
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