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11/19/2019 4:02 am |
I have been with a couple of women in my life when swinging with i did get somewhat emotional. One was married and i didn't get as emotional with her as her husband was with us. On the other hand the single gal i did get so that i started getting feelings of not so much love but a sense of wanting to please her much more than any others i had been with. I haven't been with many women but the ones i have enjoyed sexually i have felt wanting to be with them more. Once i remarried i no longer was swinging. Bottom line is one can get feelings in the heat of the sexual play if you both are enjoying each others touch. So swinging is a hard thing to keep ones emotions in check with certain individuals .
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For me there has to be emotions or I would rather not JUST ME A TALL PASSIONATE MAN WITH A HUGE HEART
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11/19/2019 4:19 am |
keeping emotions out of sex is like bring logic into love there is a world of difference between insanity and stupidity
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Nobody really turns their emotions off.... You have sex, and if you orgasm, you're going to feel a rush of euphoria .... Having sex without attaching yourself emotionally to the other person can be done. You just grow up and understand that the euphoria you feel during sex is just a typical release of certain chemicals in your brain. You have sex, you finish, you/they get up and clean off, and leave. You're both experiencing that euphoria, but that feeling goes away soon enough when it's not nurtured. Just like when you masturbate, or pay for a hooker. You feel high, you feel calm... relaxed, and go about your business. At your age , you should know this by now.
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I suppose I could learn to turn mine off, but why would I want to? Part of my pleasure is feeling his, and I would hope he'd feel the same way. Doesn't mean being in love, just feeling affectionate during and a little bit after is plenty good. If I had to school myself out of feeling anything, I might as well just masturbate, no point in rubbing bodies with someone else.
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11/19/2019 6:37 pm |
No emotions works for me
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11/22/2019 10:06 am |
I'm too filled with lust to shut off my emotions, but a fwb I had would go full anxiety after she came.
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11/27/2019 4:42 am |
How can you not have emotion when you have sex? You balance the joys with the physical feelings of being touched as well as a few sadness or being angry when you are touched uncomfortably wrong. Sex does give into emotions, but what can happen as it has for me is after the orgasm and wash of euphoria is the other side of the brain takes over "being emotionless" and "logical" for the next 5 minutes that causes more damage to the relationship before emotions come back to me. It sounds strange but it does happen from time to time
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