21 posts 4/28/2020 4:45 pm
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Home wrecker?
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4/29/2020 10:28 am |
I voted you because you are so active in wanting a married man. But in retrospect...you are asking them to introduce themselves. So really it's 100% husband if he seeks it out. And 49% or less if you were to seduce a husband. 
Steffichick replies on 4/30/2020 9:34 am:
Hi, thanks for your comments, however I will not be inticing a husband to have an affair with me. I am advertising myself to be a mistress in an affair but I am leaving any enquiries to be made by the husband. As I am single all the risks will be borne by the husband therefore I don't want to be accused of pressuring a man to become involved in an affair. Thank you for voting. |
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4306 posts 4/29/2020 4:14 pm |
It takes two - If the marriage is not working then both of the partners need to work at it or get out of it.
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4/29/2020 6:31 pm
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You are sexy
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1406 posts 4/30/2020 12:04 am |
Does it matter?
Affairs are usually an indication of something very different going on in their lives.
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128 posts 4/30/2020 2:48 pm |
Definitely up to both me and the guy I’m seeing
Steffichick replies on 5/2/2020 2:55 am:
Thank you for your input Sarah, it's interesting to get the opinion of another woman. |
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9800 posts 5/1/2020 12:12 am |
Well since there isn't the slightest concern of what it might do
to the wife.Until of course you rat him out for leaving the
affair prematurely.Other than that it comes
down to the wife marrying the wrong guy.
Using more than all the road!
Steffichick replies on 5/1/2020 12:15 pm:
Hey look, there is a concern for the wife, it's the presence of the wife that creates the conditions necessary for an affair to happen in the first place. As for "ratting him out" as you put it, I would never do that out of spite, I am mature enough to know that the husband may feel the pressure and want to call it off, that is fair enough. If the husband walked away leaving me holding a baby that would be a different matter, I would hope that we could come to some arrangement under those circumstances. Please dont cast me under a bad light for something that hasn't happened. |
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5/2/2020 5:24 am |
Hi S. A thought provoking poll. I voted for the husband given the options presented but I do feel you need to consider adding a binary option of "husband and wife" and see where that goes. Were such an option available I would have opted for that in a heartbeat. It certainly is not "Steff", "MenNation.com" or "Steff AND MenNation.com" who would be responsible. Their function serves only as an enabler. Neither one of them would be responsible. For that reason I don't feel "Steff and husband" would be correct either. I hope this helps generate further discussions. Thank fuck I'm single #livesimply
Steffichick replies on 5/2/2020 11:57 am:
This is an option I haven't considered primarily on the assumption that it is the husband and I who would be cheating on the wife, the wife being an innocent party in the equation. I think it unfair to aportion blame to somebody who hasn't a clue what is going on. Of course there is the possibility that the wife by her actions has forced the husband upon his intended course of action. I would hope this is not the situation with my intended lover. Thank you for voting and your opinion. |
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5/2/2020 10:23 am
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I blame the website. No website. No meeting.
Steffichick replies on 5/2/2020 12:56 pm:
I think that is an incorrect view, if I could use an analogy to illustrate this; it's the same as saying that guns are dangerous. Guns are not dangerous, it is people that are dangerous, a gun cannot kill someone until it is operated by a person. Similarly the website could sit here quite comfortably without causing any trouble whatsoever, until that is, people start using it. Lovely to read your comment and thanks for your input. I hope my reply makes sense to you. |
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31 posts 5/3/2020 11:03 am |
Online?
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1135 posts 5/6/2020 2:29 pm |
I said both. I had an affair years ago and it broke up our marriage. My wife wasn't giving me what I needed, it was always about what she wanted. Both of us should have talked about it. In the long run though I don't regret the divorce. I do remember thinking though that all I did was mess up my kids lives.
Steffichick replies on 5/6/2020 4:59 pm:
Thanks for your insight and your vote. Yes I agree that you shouldn't enter an affair lightly, there are real victims if things go awry. Some marriages are destined to failure and the affair is just a symptom of the situation, however I've heard that some affairs end up with the husband realizing how much his wife means and the marriage is saved when the affair is ended. I'm sorry that your children became innocent victims. I hope that I am not the cause of a similar occurance. |
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10466 posts 5/21/2020 1:47 pm |
Hi Steffi, My situation was similar to Zeke, I was working in Germany at the time. That was in 2002, I stayed on in Germany, neither my marriage or the affair lasted long after I was caught out by my wife. Fortunately my kids were grown up, and my relationship with them hasn't suffered.
Please visit my Blog "Older but no Wiser" 
Steffichick replies on 5/21/2020 3:00 pm:
Thanks Dave for your comment and taking the time to read my blog. I hope you voted in my poll, I am interested in what people think about having an affair. I'm glad that you haven't alienated your children too, it is an important consideration on behalf of the man with whom I will enter into this relationship with. Thank you. |
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12 posts 5/22/2020 4:26 pm |
Probably both lol
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