Being Erica
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Posted:Dec 9, 2018 12:00 pm
Last Updated:Jun 12, 2019 9:34 pm
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Hi Everybody!
Thanks for checking out my first blog post. In this post I'm going to give you a little more information than what is in my profile. My hope is that if you are really interested in me, you will find your way here and learn if you are really a good fit. Without further ado....
Being Erica is complicated. First of all, I only crossdress part time. I wish I could dress more but some one needs to pay the bills, right? I lead a normal masculine life most of the time so if you message me to hook up tonight or this weekend or whatever it will 99% of the time not happen. I carefully plan out time to play . I will take a long weekend at various times of the year, let the Pink Fog take over, and fully immerse myself into being Erica.
I'm married to a wonderful woman whom I'm emotionally monogamous with. She supports my crossdressing and is fine with me exploring my feminine side, but as she comes from a conservative background, she does not choose to play and I respect her moral sensibilities by keeping playtime for Erica very low key.
My sexuality is complicated as well. I am a straight guy most of the time. I am attracted to women and love everything about the feminine mystique. To the point that I'm infatuated with the thought of being a girl and love to explore feminine sexuality by "becoming" a girl from time to time. When I'm a girl, I become bisexual, pansexual, omnisexual, whatever you want to call it. I'm still very much attracted to women but I also crave certain things that a man can give me.
With women I tend to be more dominant but with men almost totally submissive. If you are looking for a dominant CD, I'm probably not your Gurl.
I have limited sexual experience with men, I was in a long term FWB with a lesbian couple but they have moved far away so now I am looking for some other playmates and want to include men this time.
I feel that being a CD is the best of both worlds and what makes dating a CD fun. I have the sex drive and willingness of a guy but hopefully the attractiveness and demeanor of a girl without the drama. I'm a lady on the street and a freak in the bed using the parlance of our times.  If you and I click, I can blow your mind, but I am super picky so it is hard to find good matches.
So here is the deal. Sexually I am looking for a FWB/NSA relationship with ideally a couple, as I feel like I can add the most to that dynamic. So couples if you were ever interested in something different, I might be a good fit. I thrive by helping people explore their sexuality and would love to be part of a healthy relationship.
If you are a solo male I am still interested but I am going to be even more picky, but trust me, I am worth it. You will have to be fit, respectful, patient and good looking and bring something to the table that the other guys do not. Dick pics and hey babe does not cut it. What makes you different? Neither does the aggressive approach. I'm not here just for your personal pleasure. You unfortunately will have to pursue me like a real girl...I want to be treated like a princess not a sexual deviant...well, at least until we know each other a little 
So that leaves the T gurls. You are always are welcome as friends. What I am looking for in a t gurl is a person I can talk to, shop with, dress up with and if you are right, some sexy action. Us tgurls are kindred spirits and I would love to find another girl to play with. To all of my mature CDs out there, I love hearing from you and would love to be friends, but I am looking for younger gurls to have a sexual relationship with. I know that sounds awful and that one day I will be in your heels.
To anyone that might be interested in me, you have to be clean , discrete, disease free, drama free, patient, kind, understanding...and hot 420 is ok. I am a very busy person and am not on the site 24/7 so if I don't respond right away don't worry, I will in time. Please be patient.
About messaging...I honestly do not have time for a bunch of small talk, or cybersex, or flaky banter. I do have time for intelligent conversation preferably with a sexual slant, answering questions about Cding, entertaining fantasies you may have about CDs and how I might fit in, or other thoughtful conversation. I don't like crude language just for the sake of using it. Use it wisely. I hope this doesn't come across bitchy, I just want to save everyone a little time.
If you have read this far, you are indeed patient. If I haven't scared you off yet, tell me the most beautiful place you have ever been. That will let me know that you are legit, you read about my quirks, are still interested, and might want to be part of my playtime when that Pink Fog rolls in. It also shows you can follow a simple request and good lovers do those type of things right?
Ok, so now you know a little more about me and what I am looking for. I am hoping that you, kinky reader, get in touch.
XoXoXo
Erica
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In case anybody was wondering
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Posted:Dec 18, 2018 6:31 pm
Last Updated:Jun 12, 2019 9:35 pm
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== Results from bdsmtest.org ==
100% Experimentalist
99% Rope bunny
94% Voyeur
84% Exhibitionist
81% Non-monogamist
71% Submissive
62% Switch
57% Rigger
56% Primal (Prey)
53% Ageplayer
44% Pet
38% Slave
37% Boy/Girl
37% Brat
19% Dominant
10% Masochist
7% Daddy/Mommy
6% Owner
5% Brat tamer
5% Vanilla
5% Primal (Hunter)
2% Master/Mistress
0% Degradee
0% Degrader
0% Sadist
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