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A rather special night
 
Memoirs of an invisable man
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I've been a naughty boy..........
Posted:Feb 26, 2008 12:32 pm
Last Updated:Mar 13, 2008 9:27 pm
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Just looked at my last post on here and found out that I wrote it December! Time flies when you work so much, but things are starting to settle down a bit as far as work goes. As of two weeks ago, I get at least one night off on the weekends now. Granted it's on Sunday night but beggars can't be choosers I guess?

An update on my relationship....doing well. Still see Mel about three times a week. Go to her place on hump day, and usually she spends the weekends here, going home Sunday afternoon. Three weekends ago (as my second job was trying to figure out their schedules for me) I was getting Fridays off, I took advantage of those two fridays I was free to do something I haven't been able to do in awhile. Go out and get drunk. Had a blast doing it..and was really floored when Mel suggested, no brought out the camera she packed that weekend. Yes, is the answer..she/we took some pics. I'd share them on my profile but it was a disposable camera. As of yet I don't even know if she's got the film developed yet? It was a crazy night, she was a little bit tipsy..well more so than tipsy. Kept telling me that she was so drunk that I could do anything I had a mind too if I wanted. As she eluded to the small bottle of Ky that I keep on the book case in my room. Now I don't know about you folks, but most women I've met don't do anal,and Mel is like most women. I did meet an exception once, dated her for the longest time, but in the end (sorry for the pun) I got tired of it..thing was she wanted it that way all the time.
Anywho, Mel and I did play around a bit with the lube but, never progressed to anything more that fingering. Something to look forward to...

As for work it sucks...but the jobs pay the bills. I get bored a lot while doing my day job. Most of the time I'm done early with my work and sit around reading. Still it beats a sharp stick in the eye, so I won't complain.

Nothing much else happening around here. I do hope to get back into the "SWING" of things soon though, talking with some new people and want to reconnect with some of my old friends I haven't seen in awhile. Hell, maybe I'll even have a chance to write more in my blog?

Have a good one!

Tim
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Cristmas is over.........................
Posted:Dec 26, 2007 12:49 pm
Last Updated:Feb 5, 2008 2:25 pm
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Till next year...the presents you bought lie in a pile under the tree, already the have picked their favorites and the others look like they need a ticket to the island of misfit toys. That turkey sandwich you had for lunch just didn't seem to go down that well, not to mention those left over yams. Still those are the things we're use too after the holiday rush is done. Oh you still may be going out to visit friends and relatives of course, extended families seem to take up our time the week between Christmas and New Years. But come New Years eve, your be ready to start the process over again..the parties, the food, the antacid you'll need the next day to settle that sour stomach. ( God why on earth did I mix beer, and Black Russians. Just stop this pounding headache and I'll never drink again)
But you do..it's tradition. We eat too much, drink too much and buy things we don't want or really even need. All in an effort to bring a little joy into our lives. You think we'd learn? But every year we get back on the same and try to hang on during that wild ride, that starts the day after Thanksgiving and doesn't end till we have to return to work on the second of January. Like I said, "You'd think we'd learn."
Ah well, maybe next year? Oh and in case your interested, there are 364 shopping days left till Christmas...I hear the Mall is open and there's a sale going on.............
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Let it snow ,let it snow, let it snow.......
Posted:Dec 16, 2007 1:45 pm
Last Updated:Dec 18, 2007 5:15 pm
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Well ol man winter has us in his tight grip today. I wouldn't mind so much if the G/f had stayed over like she normally does on the weekends. But because of the icy conditions of the roads she left yesterday after only spending one night. Me, I'm stuck in-doors due to not having any transportation. I took my van to the shop to get the annual yearly inspection, and true to form it won't be done till next Thursday,
Bummer, not like I really need to go anywhere. It's just that sitting here with nothing to do is making me a little nuts.
I could decorate for the holidays, eh? Well I did get the tree up, and the lights around the door are set as well, but I have no desire to put the ornaments on all by my lonesome. And, that job is usually reserved for my ( I have to arm chair supervise as she tends to place the same color bulbs too close together)So basically that little task is done till she gets the notion to do the job, as my part in the process is done.
Ah well, it could be worse I guess? we could be buried under 20 feet of the white stuff. (biting my tongue & knocking on wood) My X-mas shopping is pretty much done, I have a couple of DVD's to get, and a couple of gift cards as well. The cards are for my , he never tells me what he wants, and rather than getting something he won't use or doesn't need I get the cards. (easier that way) The DVD's are for the G/f and my . Bought them both their own DVD players this year (shhhhhh...don't tell) The girlfriend wants the newest boy wizard movie that's out ( she has the others that came out before it) and there's a new Christmas DVD that has all those christmas specials on it that get played every year. ( she expressed an interest in picking one up for herself, I told her to wait Santa may bring it to her) The , well I'll have to shop around for something for her DVD wise. Like me she'll watch most anything, so I'll just pick up some of the newer DVD's that are out.
As for me, and christmas gifts..what I'd really like....is to have a weekend where I didn't have to go to work so I could relax and enjoy myself without having any responsibilities. That and turning out all the lights except for the tree and getting down to some fun with special friends in that magical setting.

So remember, if your on Santa's naughty list this year, make the best of it. Cause sometimes Naughty is Nice!
Evil
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New Years.................
Posted:Nov 24, 2007 2:42 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 5:35 am
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Asked Mel what she wanted to do for new years this year, it being our first together. She said that most New years she just stayed home, playing cards drinking with friends etc. I suggested that we get a hotel room with a hot tub, and she floored me with her answer which turned out to be a question, "Well, who are we gonna have in the hot tub besides us?"
Now as you may or may not know, I've never approached Mel with anything about the lifestyle. I figured we'd just do the normal guy-girl dating thing. So far we've been having a great time. Exploring each others wants and needs, finding out what we like or dislike to do with our free time together. We've been getting along great and having fun. But every once and a while she'll let something slip that makes me wonder if she hasn't dabbled in the lifestyle herself before we met. Little things mostly, like the time she went and got her camera just as we were about to adjourn to her bed after some heavy petting on the couch. (no photo's taken though, the flash wasn't working ) Or, the time I told her I still had some compromising photos of me and the ex wife. (She didn't bat an eye, in fact just got a little more frisky) Then last tuesday we went out for my birthday,to have a few drinks. Before leaving for the bar we stopped at the local video store for some movies for me for the next day (Thanksgiving) And suggested after we had been at the bar for awhile that "we should have gone into the adult section to pick one out" But qualified "not that we need it, as we do fine on our own" Then the hot tub statement after we got back to my place that night.
I'm just wondering is all. I mean I don't want to come right out and ask her, less I offend her. But with the way she's been in bed with me, open to all the suggestions I've made, and has come up with a few herself that were really fun...I don't know? I was never one for figuring out just where a woman's head was at when it came to relationships. But still her statement regarding who we'd be sharing the hot tub with really made me think.
It would be nice if it were something we could share with each other, but for now, I'll wait and see.
What do you think? Let me know.
Later people!
Tim

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Sexy undies.......................
Posted:Oct 13, 2007 3:22 am
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2007 12:21 pm
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She wore the sexy undies the last time I spent the night. Truth be told I didn't really get a good look at them, as they weren't on for very long. Not that she minded, or me, for that matter.

I was never one for dressing up to impress. Sure it's nice when she wears something special to bed to get me excited, but if she wore her old robe she'd get the same reactions from me. It's not the clothing that excites me, rather it's the woman who's wearing them.

Let me clue you in ladies...Men, that is most men would rather see you nude, it's a guy thing.
Something about the female body in it's natural form is enough to drive us all to distraction. The thongs, G-strings, push up bras, or that lacy garter with the fishnet stockings is just icing on the cake. It's sweet, tasty and oh so naughtily sinful. But, most of us don't need all that much sugar.

The same goes for body types. Yes, I know there are those who favor one type over another. But for me, well if a woman is willing to share a bed with me, it doesn't matter if she is tall, or short, model thin, or rubenesque. The mere fact that she would accede to be my lover is enough to set my heart a flutter, and in flame my passions.

Anywho, just some thoughts people, me thinking aloud is all. Some may disagree with me, but our minds are the largest sex organs we have. If we excite the gray matter, all else is irrelevant.

Remember I'm pulling for you, were all in this together.

Evil

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August already???????
Posted:Aug 12, 2007 9:27 am
Last Updated:Oct 13, 2007 2:46 am
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My time flies when your stuck at work all the time. Seems I'm missing the summer again. It always happens like that, working all the time I never get to go out and do the fun things of summer.
I did go to the beach once....just did a walk about though. A first date thing really. Met a woman on another site that I belong too. We met and played a couple of games of pool at a local bar, and to get to know each other a little better took a walk around the Perry Monument, then sat and chatted some at a picnic table. Well, we did more than chat. No, we didn't put on a show for the vacationing families if that's what you were thinking. Though we did do some kissing and lots of hugging. She's a nice woman and I've seen her a few times since then, out to movies and dinner, or second date got a little wilder, still it felt like I was back in high school again, getting each other all worked up and having to go before anything really happened. Our third date she spent the night at my place, the fourth date we spent at her place. That hurdle overcum, we're settling in to a relationship now. Calling or emailing each other once a day. That sort of thing. She's separated at present, her who's 20something shares the apartment with her. He's a nice , did the protective thing the last time I was over there (the time I spent the night) But I think he realizes that his mom is human, and suffers from the condition as well as most of us do, that being we get horny from time to time. Thing is she doesn't now about my membership on this site, or if she does hasn't said anything about it.

I'm in a quandary if I should tell her or not? On the one hand I want to be honest and open about myself, on the other I don't want to risk killing the budding relationship with startling revelations, like my having been with couples, or other males. The females I'm pretty sure she's hip on that point. She knew I wasn't a priest when we started talking, as judging from her reaction when we had sex last week, knows I didn't get that good by myself. Still, she seems a bit vanilla so far, and I must admit I do like the taste of vanilla, sort of missed it really.

An odd thing did happen on our last date though, we were watching a movie, the latest one on DVD about that boy wizard, (funny movie by the way I'd recommend it to anyone who likes a bit of fantasy and a good laugh) Anywho, it was her copy of the movie, and having seen it she got up during and started rummaging through her hall closet, no biggie I thought..though I was a bit awkward as we had been cuddling and petting while we were watching it. (sort of felt like when someone opens a outside door in the middle of a winter storm, that cold empty feeling you get) With the movie almost done I figured we were heading off to her room next, so it struck me that I might have done something or said something wrong, to my surprise she came back with what she had been looking for, her camera..and a new roll of film....Ok, I'm thinking, she was sending the signals that we would adjourn to her bed in a few, now she's loading her camera? Now I've been in a few candid shots, if you seen my profile you know this, and those of you who I know well know I don't mind photos taken (some of you still have some loaded on disc that they're afraid of up loading to their computer to send me copies..not mentioning any names her though. LO Well she sat there loading the thing and checking the buttons and knobs and such, and said Yeah, I'm sort of a nut when it comes to photos...as it turns out her flash wasn't working...so I never did find out exactly what she had in mind. But I had the distinct impression she wanted more than the usually smile and watch the birdie shots type of picture.

I guess it's just me, but when I'm in a relationship with a woman and we haven't met through a site like this one it's hard to judge what it is and where it's all going. I mean if it's not hot sweaty groping from the start, I get confused as how to act with her. Should I be bold and suggest the outrageous? (Hey, lets get out the rubber sheets and ketchup and pretend we're french fries) Or do I act the prim and proper guy and just let her lead me but the hand as to where she wants to go with it? It's confusing to say the least. At any rate, I'd have loved to know just what type of pictures she had planned on shooting that day.

Guess I'll have to get her flash fixed for her.

Tim
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A very special night............................
Posted:Jul 2, 2007 2:06 am
Last Updated:Jan 28, 2015 4:58 am
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Ah, the thrill of meeting new people, and getting better aquainted with those you've already met!

For those of you who couldn't make it, last nights Meet and Greet was fantastic! But alas, my home town comrade's have let me down some, by not taking part in the fun. Of the entire group I was the only guy from Erie in attendance.
I don't know what it is about the erie people, true there are a lot of us out there, but few if any take the time to get to know the people in their own community. It seems a shame really. Granted our mundane lives come first, but if your in the lifestyle you shouldn't have any qualms about meeting up with others from the area. So, your shy...it's ok....Lot's of us are shy at first, but you'll find the people you meet aren't gonna eat you. Well, maybe they will, but then that's the whole point of this site isn't it.
In any event if you missed going, you missed out.
But don't worry....I'm sure we'll be meeting again soon enough. Trouble is given the lack luster attendance from the folks up here, the folks from the south of us talk of moving the meetings down there. Come on people....lets show Erie has the heart, and can play with the best of them!
Tim
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happy pills..................................
Posted:Jun 25, 2007 2:26 pm
Last Updated:Jun 29, 2007 1:23 pm
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Ok, been off work all day. Major tooth ache. Just got back from going to the dentist and Giant Eagle, hence the title of this blog. The dentist was fun, seems the hygienist was bad last weekend. She wouldn't tell the Dr, what she did, but during their conversation she let it slip that the naughty thing she did while drunk involved her best girlfriend. Seems their husbands had taken a road trip to Vegas..you know the place where what you do stays there. Well whatever it was she did with her best friend was to be treated the same. Think she was egging the Dr. on a bit, being a tease. But I found their conversation quite interesting. At any rate it took my mind off of what the dentist was doing. I can still hear the tooth crack as he pulled it, the molar was gone, one I had a root canal done on years ago, I'd lost the crown and never gotten it replaced. Guess I bit down on it too hard last friday while eating lunch, hit a nerve and then the infection set in. Bye-Bye tooth!
I wasn't in pain at all, the Novocaine took good care of that while I was in the chair. I was also taking meds for the infection. Over the counter pain pills assumed that they had helped during the process? Anywho I left the office with the paid bill, pamphlets on what to do and not following an extraction, and a script for pain meds (if I needed them) I didn't think I would so I just came home afterwords..thats when the Novocaine started to wear off.
I had to go back to the store to get my script filled. WoooHoo! That was real fun, ever try to tell a pharmacy tech your info with a mouth full of gauze and in pain? Not a day at the beach I can tell you! Then I had to wait a half an hour for the script to be filled..well 20 minutes, the tech took pity on me as I was standing there holding an dibs ice cream box to my face to ease the swelling and cool the pain. Anywho, prescription filled I went home...oh I did stop at Micy D's to get a large cup of ice (had too the dibs were melting) James, took one look at me standing there and just went over to the ice chest and filled one of the large (mammoth) sweet tea cups with out even checking too see why I had come in. Guess the swelling gave me away, that and the closing crew last night having to cover for me cause I didn't go in to work because of the pain. Ok, Ice in hand I headed for home, now those pills are winding through my system Having downed one as soon as I got in the door. I ate the dibs. Had to as I said they were melting. The ice is chillin here next to me I use it as needed, funny thing though I don't feel so bad now..oh there is pain there, but very vary muted. Thank god for chemicals!
Tim
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Horny as a goat......................
Posted:Jun 20, 2007 3:11 pm
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 5:35 am
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baaaaaaaaaa....hey if it weren't for fantasy I'd have no sex life to speak of lately.

Not much going on been working a lot. As usual.
Hard to get some free time to myself even to take matters into my own hands. Monday night came home tired from working a double, Tuesday came home to find my sleeping in my bed ( I have a window fan, says it's cooler for her in there) Go figure? 90 degrees and it's too hot in her room to sleep. If she'd just dig the other fan out of the closet..well, I won't beat a dead . I didn't mind really. Just like I said hard to get some free time to myself. Or be able to invite a friend over for some play time. , you gotta love em...think it's a rule or something? Middle arrived a 10 pm last night, ahhhh.... could you give me a ride home? Sure seeing how my beds occupied and I've only got a 1/4 tank of gas, dad's taxi is at your disposal.
Forget them taking a bus...too mundane for them, too common. And walking?!? Never, my never walked..bussed to school, never learned the joy of it...In my day we had to walk ten miles to school...both ways...up hill... usually in a blinding snow storm, if I'd asked my dad for a ride he'd say why? Your leg broken? I blame their mother...she's the one who spoiled them, me I just never learned the fine art of saying no to them. My bad.
Anywho...enough of my trials..how has your week been so far?
Evil

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Good night............................
Posted:Jun 17, 2007 8:29 am
Last Updated:Apr 18, 2024 5:35 am
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I had a good night last night! Getting together with friends, meeting and makeing new ones! I doesn't get any better than that. Well, maybe it can.
Hopefully everyone got home safely and enjoyed themselves while they were here. I'm looking forward to the next time we can all get together.
Have a good one peeps!
Tim
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