Guess It Was My Time....This Time...  

GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1704 posts
5/29/2019 4:07 pm
Guess It Was My Time....This Time...

Just sittin' here at my keyboard for a little while, minding my business and an email comes in!

It's from a couple who are apparently the rulers of A*F*F ? They feel I shouldn't be here. I'm not real because I'm not presently looking for a sexual partner.

I clearly state this fact on my profile, so how much more real do I have to be?

Below is our exchange. This one isn't really bad all compared to some I've had...but they are still annoying little minded people who think they get a choice in what I do......LOL

UPDATE.....5/31 - Apparently they aren't happy I'm not going anywhere and feel the need to contact me again.

This is the last I will be addressing them. Next step to just block the little twits and be done!!







Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1769 posts
5/29/2019 4:09 pm

Ask me if I Give A...............NOPE....I DO NOT!!

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GIdontknow_134 61M
270 posts
5/29/2019 4:12 pm

Hi GEL:

I think that you may've used a few too many of those word thingies (like, any).

Have a great day.

G


BiggLala 47F  
25991 posts
5/29/2019 4:49 pm

I'm not trying to be contrarian, but...you do care and give a fuck what they think. You responded to the message and posted this, giving them attention. Yeah, it's annoying when this happens, but you gave them what they wanted...attention and/or to know they affected you.

I'm just saying.

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zeke53028 60M
881 posts
5/29/2019 6:34 pm

It's like Uncle Si (from Duck Dynasty) says, "you just can't fix stupid." You have your reasons for being here, I have mine, and everyone else has theirs. Who cares!!!!


travellerabc123 49M
3571 posts
5/29/2019 6:48 pm

I'm very sorry for your bad experience.
We aren't all like that.

Embrace the suck


jajo696 64F
486 posts
5/29/2019 7:46 pm

Opinions.....like assholes....everyone has one. Lots of time people confuse opinions with fact....not understanding it is merely only fact....to them. There are many reasons to ignore on here....and in life. Ugh @ them ! ~~


de_anna55 64F
23 posts
5/29/2019 7:56 pm

I understand what BiggLala means, people like that need to be ignored.
However, I wonder, what do they get out of that unkind behavior?


yesmamallthetime 52F  
10797 posts
5/30/2019 12:20 am

Sounds like your average troll.

Independently Romantic Sounds Better Than Lonely


rm_mikeinlcla 56M
7 posts
5/30/2019 12:38 am

everyone has opinion s some arent bashful about sharing theirs


author51 56F  
77040 posts
5/30/2019 1:05 am

WTF? Why would they care why you are here..We all have our reasons and no one person has the right to question our decision to meet or not..Like you I answer them back and put them in their place. Ignoring is not always the answer.If we all did that, they will continue onto others who have on their profiles that they are not meeting and attack them as well.. I would love for them to message me and give it to the narrow minded idiots in no uncertain terms.. Good for you for standing up for yourself...

One can never have enough JOY in their life...


Imthatgirl1122 37F
610 posts
5/30/2019 2:21 am

why on earth someone need to care of what people doing...please ignore them or block them. I'm not looking for sex also...im here for blogs...
people can be soooo idiot sometimes...


Story435 71M
2693 posts
5/30/2019 4:00 am

Hello sweetie!
That is unbleaveabl some people are nuts! I don't see anything wrong with you at all that you shouldn't be here. I love that your here!
Butch


let_me_see1 60M  
651 posts
5/30/2019 5:30 am

Well, if they are doing that well themselves (or himself) in getting such great sex partners, why is concerned with why you are on here? I think if the loser (losers) were that busy and great in finding sex, they wouldn't have any time left to type messages like that. I for one am very glad that you are on here. Over the past two years or so, we have become chatting friends and one can never have enough friends! Congrats on handling them (him) the way you did. If they (he) need a second opinion, send him (them) my way dear!!!

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Kalbi54 64M  
1162 posts
5/30/2019 8:57 am

No kidding... you're free to do whatever you want (short of illegal) with someone or not. We all are and we all have choices. I guess they're were disappointed


s2ndegree 60M  
9043 posts
5/30/2019 10:03 am

Why can't people see this for what it's worth
and turn the tables by thanking them.
It's the closet we'll get to
the results of karma without
even having to hope for it.

Using more than all the road!


CarriedBack 57M  
95 posts
5/30/2019 8:50 pm

WTF?

Great response--and thanks for sharing. (Even though I'm disappointed that you didn't give us more obvious hints to your correspondents' identity! LO

I, for one, am glad you are here, and I don't consider your blog posts to be ridiculous. Keep 'em coming!

Cheers!


CarriedBack 57M  
95 posts
5/30/2019 8:58 pm

WTF?

Great response--and thank you for sharing. (Even though I'm disappointed that you didn't give us more obvious hints to your correspondents' identity! LO

I, for one, am glad you are here, and I don't consider your blog posts to be ridiculous. Keep 'em coming!

Cheers!


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1769 posts
5/31/2019 12:04 pm

    Quoting GIdontknow_134:
    Hi GEL:

    I think that you may've used a few too many of those word thingies (like, any).

    Have a great day.

    G
Ooooooooookkkkkkkkkkk...

Thanks for visiting....

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1769 posts
5/31/2019 12:11 pm

    Quoting BiggLala:
    I'm not trying to be contrarian, but...you do care and give a fuck what they think. You responded to the message and posted this, giving them attention. Yeah, it's annoying when this happens, but you gave them what they wanted...attention and/or to know they affected you.

    I'm just saying.
I care in that they think they have any right at all to tell me to leave because they don't like why I'm here! But that's what happens sometimes.

I usually will respond, but have also ignored morons like these....just depends on how the wind is blowing that day....lol

Glad too see you are back Lala!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1769 posts
5/31/2019 12:15 pm

    Quoting  :

I'm choosy as well...and just because my choice is to not meet right now - it pisses them off?

They can go pound sand.....I'm not going anywhere...

Thanks for stopping by!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1769 posts
5/31/2019 12:19 pm

    Quoting zeke53028:
    It's like Uncle Si (from Duck Dynasty) says, "you just can't fix stupid." You have your reasons for being here, I have mine, and everyone else has theirs. Who cares!!!!
Nope you can not fix stupid.....lol

We're all here for a reason and as long as no one is getting hurt, and it's between consenting adults...it's all good.

Live and let live.....

Thanks for your thoughts

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1769 posts
5/31/2019 12:21 pm

    Quoting travellerabc123:
    I'm very sorry for your bad experience.
    We aren't all like that.
Ohhhh....it's okay - thank you!

I absolutely agree that not everyone is like this couple (if they even are a couple). Plenty of nice and real people!

Thanks for stopping by!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1769 posts
5/31/2019 12:25 pm

    Quoting jajo696:
    Opinions.....like assholes....everyone has one. Lots of time people confuse opinions with fact....not understanding it is merely only fact....to them. There are many reasons to ignore on here....and in life. Ugh @ them ! ~~
Very true words.....lol

I sometimes ignore and some days I feel like engaging a bit! Entertainment is how I see it....

They'll get blocked....I'm done amusing myself..

Thanks for your thoughts!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1769 posts
5/31/2019 12:30 pm

    Quoting de_anna55:
    I understand what BiggLala means, people like that need to be ignored.
    However, I wonder, what do they get out of that unkind behavior?
I understand what Lala means. I just sometimes like to engage them a bit before I block them and delete their emails.

It depends how far they take it if I report them or not...usually don't.

People get to know how people are...and avoid ones like these...

Thanks for visiting my blog!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1769 posts
5/31/2019 12:32 pm

Yeah....this is stuff I get from time to time. Trolls will be trolls...

Thanks

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1769 posts
5/31/2019 12:34 pm

    Quoting rm_mikeinlcla:
    everyone has opinion s some arent bashful about sharing theirs
This is true...and one figures this will happen on occasion! They can offer theirs...but I always reserve the right to give them mine as well...

Thanks

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1769 posts
5/31/2019 12:41 pm

    Quoting author51:
    WTF? Why would they care why you are here..We all have our reasons and no one person has the right to question our decision to meet or not..Like you I answer them back and put them in their place. Ignoring is not always the answer.If we all did that, they will continue onto others who have on their profiles that they are not meeting and attack them as well.. I would love for them to message me and give it to the narrow minded idiots in no uncertain terms.. Good for you for standing up for yourself...
Exactly! I have never questioned someone for being here. If I found out for sure it was to hurt someone I'd speak up - but otherwise it's their business....not mine!

Once you question me...then all bets are off! I have had people ask this same question - if they do it in a nice manner, then they get nice back.

If they do it with attitude - they will usually get attitude back!

Have a great day /evening Joy!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


backpocket13 42M
7634 posts
6/2/2019 6:11 am

Hey Green Eyes,
..........Fuck Him!........It’s a shame that Most of the Men On here are Blatant Assholes,.......Sorry that you had to put up with that bullshit!..........
Sinfully Yours, backpocket13


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1769 posts
6/2/2019 10:25 am

    Quoting Imthatgirl1122:
    why on earth someone need to care of what people doing...please ignore them or block them. I'm not looking for sex also...im here for blogs...
    people can be soooo idiot sometimes...
I have since blocked them/him.

I mind my own business on here and just do what I do. I will occasionally reach out to someone if their profile is well written and tell them I enjoyed reading...but I don't write to ever criticize one.

It takes all kinds to make up A*F*F that's for sure!

Thanks for stopping by

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1769 posts
6/2/2019 10:29 am

    Quoting Story435:
    Hello sweetie!
    That is unbleaveabl some people are nuts! I don't see anything wrong with you at all that you shouldn't be here. I love that your here!
    Butch
Hello Butch...

Some people on here are nuts, mean, and downright nasty! I don't usually come across them too much. Most emails I get are nice or just a regular old Hi!

I blocked these idiots....

Have a good weekend - thanks for stopping by

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1769 posts
6/2/2019 10:34 am

    Quoting let_me_see1:
    Well, if they are doing that well themselves (or himself) in getting such great sex partners, why is concerned with why you are on here? I think if the loser (losers) were that busy and great in finding sex, they wouldn't have any time left to type messages like that. I for one am very glad that you are on here. Over the past two years or so, we have become chatting friends and one can never have enough friends! Congrats on handling them (him) the way you did. If they (he) need a second opinion, send him (them) my way dear!!!
Yeah I did wonder about the extra time they must have......lol

I don't care what they say about me...just that they think it matters to me or that they think they can tell anybody on here to get off the site!!

Boggles the mind!!

That for your vote of confidence...friends are a good thing for sure!

Have a good weekend!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1769 posts
6/2/2019 10:36 am

    Quoting Kalbi54:
    No kidding... you're free to do whatever you want (short of illegal) with someone or not. We all are and we all have choices. I guess they're were disappointed
Exactly......

Live and let live.....they're blocked now!!

Thanks for commenting

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1769 posts
6/2/2019 10:38 am

    Quoting s2ndegree:
    Why can't people see this for what it's worth
    and turn the tables by thanking them.
    It's the closet we'll get to
    the results of karma without
    even having to hope for it.
Hmmmmm....maybe I'll have to try that sometime...see how it goes......lol

Thanks for stopping by!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1769 posts
6/2/2019 10:43 am

    Quoting CarriedBack:
    WTF?

    Great response--and thanks for sharing. (Even though I'm disappointed that you didn't give us more obvious hints to your correspondents' identity! LO

    I, for one, am glad you are here, and I don't consider your blog posts to be ridiculous. Keep 'em coming!

    Cheers!
WTF indeed!

I didn't want to break any Terms of Use....and get kicked off - so I kept their name out. Someone told me though if you screenshot the email and their name is in it........you're okay. Didn't wanna push my luck....lol

I'm glad if you enjoy some of the blogs....thank you for reading them!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


maybejustrex4 51M  
2698 posts
6/5/2019 9:13 am

I like to talk to people about their favorite places to visit, what they like to eat, who their first "good and fun: partners were, their fantasies (both as goals and in the "too extreme to really do" categories, books, movies, anything I know almost nothing about and whatever it is that really engages their interest and animates.

Next time you get stuck in a conversation like that, I would be more than happy to get a text or email from you.


fashionablegma 76F
6090 posts
6/6/2019 9:56 pm

Oh I would not let it bother you,i would block and move on,we are all here for different reasons


Upriverman 58M

6/9/2019 1:12 pm

Don't worry about the haters, and don't give them the time of day. Cheers!


Shahin883 27M
32 posts
6/10/2019 12:28 pm

Eeee


HungnSingleTO 33M
14 posts
6/10/2019 4:41 pm

Agreed!!!


luvs2grin 46M  
337 posts
6/11/2019 9:07 am

Holy crap! That's about the most ignorant emails I have seen here yet. That's just fucking rude and ridiculous. People like that need the big boot!
Glad you are able to handle and send them packing!

I mean why the hell would someone send a message just to express their dislike? Ignore it instead of being a jackass.

Hope you have an awesome day and don't let the rude fucks bother ya!


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1769 posts
6/11/2019 1:28 pm

Thanks to all of you wonderful people who responded!! Thanks for your support

This place is full of all kinds and some are just jerk offs with nothing better to do than use their small minds to show their true nature!

My profile is long, no doubt about it....but it is MINE!! It's truthful, rough, insightful and a few other things.

Read it -don't read it, it's all the same to me.

Just keep in mind - It should all start with honesty and end with honesty!!

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


CarriedBack 57M  
95 posts
6/13/2019 3:46 pm

Oh. Em. Gee.

Great retort--but you've devoted far more time and neurons to these socially and morally bankrupt clowns than they merit. Block 'em and move on.

And keep up the great posting. I like it--and so do many others.


GreenEyedLady_60 59F  
1769 posts
6/13/2019 5:21 pm

Oh.....but I like a little verbal "battle" once in awhile with people who think they get to make the rules!!

I did block them....the list grows....

I'm glad you enjoy the blog - thank you for the compliment.

Be Honest..Be Sincere...Be REAL


MidnightBlue645 55M  
60 posts
6/17/2019 1:56 pm

Your blog had a lot of good points to it and your right there are always a lot of scammers.


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