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I need to go back to being Gold !!
Posted:May 5, 2013 9:41 pm
Last Updated:Oct 23, 2019 8:37 am
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I didn't realize how long since I posted something.

I let my Gold membership run out because I meet a lady friend who I thought she would make a good "swing partner" to have fun with others. (she's bi too) We have a couples profile and I wanted it to be Gold (that's why I let this one lapse) But I wasn't sure if she would go along with having a profile. (we broke up before we filled it out)

I've stayed a Standard member for several months now and now considering going back to Gold because I haven't met anybody lately!

It's been too long since I've eaten any pussy or sucked any cock! I need to "hook-up" with somebody soon! (boy, am I horny!)
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Relationships (some are meant "to be" while others are "NOT")
Posted:Nov 20, 2012 8:24 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2016 10:20 am
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It's been a while since I last blogged, so ...


after a long-termed marriage(20 years) and a LTR(10+ years), my latest have been several short ones. (I had made up my mind, that after the 2 long-termed relationships, I would be open about my desire for "Group Fun" in "mixed company") A 3Some being the smallest form and a MMF, (with everybody "playing" at the same time), being the most enjoyable! (I've don't consider myself "straight" or "gay" or even "bi", just "sexual ", "very sexual") I'm very discreet so I also decided only to bring the subject up when the relationship might become "sexual".

The LTR disintegrated when it became apparent that she could be involved with multiple males but not at the same time and days apart (1-on-1s only) - "unavailable". STR#1(short-term relation), 5 years younger, became "unavailable" when she became involved with another. STR#2(3 years older) accepted bisexuality and liked the idea of "being with 2 guys, at the same time, but couldn't bring herself "to let it happen!" - "unavailable". STR#1 shows back up, becoming "available" for a MFM, but when boyfriend departs, "available" again, decides "to be alone for awhile" before becoming involved with "any type" of relationship is now "unavailable" again. STR#3, 25 years younger, accepts bisexuality and "Group Fun" but hubby isn't "keen on either", so that makes her - "unavailable". STR#4, about same age, relationship never really "got off the ground" ("unavailable") but she knows STR#5, 15 years younger, (who is of the "same mind set" as me) but has only has experienced FFM 3somes and STR#5 will not "play" with STR#4! Before I could set a "hook-up" for a MMF 3some, or a FFM 3some, or even a MF/MF bi-4some (even better), she's off fucking a guy ,my age, who says he "can deliver" on a FFM with him and his wife. (but he's straight so that makes the "husband and wife couple" "UNAVAILABLE"!

STR#5 maybe "available" but I count on her as being "questionable ???" and I'm not sure if I even want to "fool-around" with her even though she is the "best match" for me, so far!
5 females in 5 years (25; 15; 5(years younger); same age; and 3years older) and I'm still not having "Group Fun" yet!
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Who's idea was it for me to start "eating Cream Pies" ???
Posted:Jun 2, 2012 10:48 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2016 10:22 am
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Well, the first time it happen, it was nobody's idea. My girl friend of the time really enjoyed having her pussy eaten. (I usually did that before I fucked her or we had oral sex (69) till we both would cum) One time she was very horny and had climbed on top of me and she was fucking my dick as if "there was no tomorrow". (it was a fantastic fuck) When I came, she kept fucking me till she couldn't go no more and at that point she rolled off of me, laying there exhausted. I want to show how much that I appreciated her fuck, that I dove in between her thighs and started eating. (not thinking that I had just shot a load in her) When she started to cum, she started squeezing her thighs around my head (as she usually does when I'm eating her and she's reaching orgasm) Well with her squeezing, the my cum starting oozing out of pussy and I kept licking till she had one hell of an squirting orgasm. (which washed more of my cum out of her)

Later she confessed to me that, it was the biggest orgasm that she ever had. She said that it might have been because I was eating a "cream pie" (she didn't know what to call it) and it was so non-homophobic of me to keep licking what it started to happen.

Since then, I've eaten many "cream pies", "washing it down" with a spray of her juices!!!
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My first male bi experience wasn't planned but my first MFM 3some was!
Posted:May 23, 2012 3:01 am
Last Updated:May 23, 2016 10:23 am
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My first male bi experience wasn't planned but my first MFM 3some was.
(it just happen to be with a bi couple)

I was raised in a homophobic society and I did my share of gay bashing. (it wasn't until much later that I learned that gays weren't out to me or turn me gay) I've done my share of fucking females. (both vaginally and anally) While my female partners were only interested in 1-on-1 activity though there was one who went crazy with pleasure when I used a double-ended toy on her and I became fascinated and curious with double penetration. Since none of my female partners want to do a 3some, I stared offering myself as the "second male" for MFM 3somes wishing to do a DP.

The first couple to agreed to meet said "no anal" when we were just about to get naked. (I have no problem "getting naked" with anybody but was disappointed with "no anal") She dropped to her knees and started sucking me aggressively, then shared my cock with her husband to my surprise! (it was very interesting being sucked by two at the same time) So I laid back and enjoyed It! Later, I found myself in a position where his cock was hanging near my face, and in "the heat of the moment", I reach out, grabbed his cock and started sucking it! (it surprised me that I was able to do that) Later He tried to kiss me on the mouth and I rejected him for doing that. Towards the end of the evening, I was laying on the bed with my face buried in her muff, as he was picking up the toys that we had use on her earlier, he tried penetrating my ass with one.

Driving back from the encounter, I was reviewing "the events of the evening" in my mind. (having surprised myself by putting a man's cock in my mouth, I was feeling rather proud of a new found skill) I started questioning myself - the things that I did that evening, were they enjoyed by everyone and the things that were done to me, did I enjoy them? (the anal attempt, did I miss out on something?)

I started sucking cock regularly, so I could get fucked in the ass! It's kind of strange - I can do so many things with a man and a woman or even just a man (and enjoy it) but to this day, I still have a difficult time, kissing a guy on the mouth!
(and I haven't done a DP with a male/female couple)
But I've done a lot more things!
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Stimulation Overload
Posted:Sep 29, 2010 2:20 pm
Last Updated:May 5, 2013 9:44 pm
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I enjoy watching porn!!! (and on the Internet, there's lots of it !!!)
Some pay sites and free ones too! (gota luv the freebies)

Today, I was watching some European porn. It was a about a group of young adults, both M&F(bisexual, of course), and they had ganged up on two people, one male and one female. They were in positions that I didn't realize that were humanly possible.

The girl had a guy fucking her in the ass (not bad for a start );
another girl had her fist in the first one's pussy;
while a guy was licking her clit!
With all that going on she was also sucking a cock!
Her tits were being sucked and licked on by a guy and a girl (each had a tit for themselves);
her hands were busy too, she was jerking one of the guys off and with the other one feeling a tit!
(it was hard to tell who was doing what to the girl)

Now for the guy.
Of course, he was getting his ass fucked too.
While this was going on,
he was getting his balls and cock sucked and licked by three people!!!
A guy was sucking his cock,
while his balls were being sucked by a couple,
(one ball was in a female mouth and the other was in a male mouth, I think, it was kind of hard to tell "up close and personal" until the camera pulled back for a wider shot)
The guy has a gal "ridin' his face and he was eatin' it for all it was worth"!
Not to be out done, he too, was busy with hands!
(jerking a guy off with one; and tweaking a female's nipple with the other)

Now that's what I call "sensory & stimulation" overload!!!

You almost needed "numbered and colored" tags for everybody, so you could tell who was doing what!
I even think the cameraman (or person) had to be a part of the whole thing, - to get some of the camera shots and angles!
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Guys, How do you like your cock sucked???
Posted:Aug 17, 2010 4:06 pm
Last Updated:Aug 19, 2012 9:01 am
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I was have a discussion with a lady friend this afternoon about cocksucking. She said she could tell the way any guy would like their cock sucked! She said it was by the way they sucked another guy's cock!

For the "Court of Public Opinion"
This is as good of a place as any, to find out if she's correct: so
Guys, do you suck cock the way that you would like yours sucked???

(Ladies, I would like to hear your opinion on this subject too)
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Homophobic - What do you think ???
Posted:Mar 3, 2009 7:11 am
Last Updated:Apr 14, 2013 12:37 am
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Like many, I was raised in a "Homophobic World". But as I became "my own person", I became Non-Homophobic.

My question is: -
Are males more homophobic than females?

(There are places for guys and gals to respond separately)
Guy responding : Yes, Men are definitely more!
Guy responding : No, They are both about the same.
Guy responding : No, Females are more!
Gal responding : Yes, Men are definitely more!
Gal responding : No, They are both about the same.
Gal responding : No, Females are more!
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What got you started eating Cream Pie Eating?
Posted:Dec 23, 2008 5:59 am
Last Updated:May 5, 2013 9:45 pm
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I was just wondering what got you started eating Cream Pies?

Mine started with a LTR lady friend. I'm a very oral person and prided myself on my pussy eating skills. She was a "world class" cocksucker. I found that out the very first time we were sexual. She sucked me almost to completion, withdrawing only to let me shoot into the air. (she had never let anyone cum in her mouth even though she had sucked a lot of cocks before me) We talked about she not letting me cum in her mouth and discovered that she was afraid of what it might taste like.

For a birthday present, she gave me a "birthday blow job" but this time she took me all the way and then swallowed. She later told me that she had been thinking about finishing me off and whether to "spit or swallow" and that I had shot so far back into her throat, that all she could do, was to swallow and never tasted cum. From that point on, she always accepted cum in her mouth if that's where she want it. (she liked cum on her tits and enjoyed having it rubbed in)

There was a time that after she satisfied me orally, she kissed me deeply. To my surprise, she hadn't swallowed as she usually been doing and accepted my own cum without pulling away. After the kiss, she told me that she was very excited by me taking my own cum in a kiss like we had. The next time we screwed, I though it would be exciting for her if I would do cream pie eating. She was so excited by what I was doing that she started to squirt. Tasting both of our cums mixed together, I was hooked.

So a "snowball kiss" got me started with "cream pie eating". Since then I've been able to get it "straight from the source".
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A Whole Lot of Ass Fucking has been Going on for a Lot of Years!
Posted:May 18, 2008 9:26 pm
Last Updated:Feb 25, 2012 3:46 am
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Over the years I've introduced many females to "the Joys of Anal Sex". My first penetration was not a pussy but a female's ass at 10 years old. I was lucky back then because I didn't know what I was doing. In the beginning, I thought females let guys fuck their ass just to please the male and maybe a little curiosity about anal because they may have gotten some arousal from having their asses touched or played with. Boy, was I wrong!!!

I was rotten in my technique of anal penetration in my younger years but I got better with practice. I learned that you have to seduce her ass just like you seduced her for sex. It's an area that has to be approached slowly and with care, to keep at it (seducing) until she asks or begs for you "to fuck her ass".

The last lady I "introduced" was so willing and wanting that I didn't have to "seduce it", just excite it and prepare it for penetration. She had confess to me that she wanted to try all forms of sex to see how pleasurable they were and that she had begged her husband to try "fucking her in the ass" and he didn't want to go there. The only time he did penetrate her ass was by accident! He was vacuously fucking her doggie style and he withdrew all the way and slammed his "skinny little pecker" back into the wrong hole which drove her across the bed hitting her head against the wall. (Bad form on his part!) At the time, she didn't know what hurt more, her head or her ass?

What had draw her to me, was her ass and I wanted to seduce her for her ass. I never told her this until she had express her interest in anal sex. From that time on,I actually fucked her ass more than I fucked her pussy, her tits and her mouth all put together, although I've got to say, she did give wonderful head and could "deep throat" without any trouble and loved to swallow, I still fucked her ass more than another place. And from me fucking her ass so much, she began to do something else besides having orgasms which she had from the very first time. She began "to squirt" which made her orgasms that much better.

I had become so pleased by her "squirting anal orgasms" that I began to think - maybe males could have anal orgasms if they were penetrated. I want to be on the "receiving end" of anal sex rather than the being "the penetrator" of it!!!When I asked her to use her dildo on me, she was very excited by the request and was willing to offer her toy "to do the deed" with her participation. It didn't go so well as I had hoped for. Maybe it was her enthusiasm and how vigorously she thrust, was the problem. She really didn't "seduced" my ass like I did hers. She never "got me off" and I had to ask, to her disappointment, to stop. Later, I tried using a dildo by myself and found it to be pleasurable and it to be so pleasurable that I would get lost in and forget to keep moving it in and out and would stop, I never reached orgasm but felt that it was obtainable, I jut needed some help. So I tried something else. At this point, you know how some people, both male and female, can have whats termed "Penis Envy", I didn't have penis envy but I had "Anal Orgasm Envy"!!! You ought to have seen her eyes light up, as if she was a "little " who had just gotten the best Christmas gift ever!!, when I got her a strap-on dildo with harness. The size of the strap-on wasn't too big or too small. It was just the right size for me, about the size a "normal" guy might be. We got naked and tried it out. She got it in with "no problem" but couldn't move her hips correctly. With each withdrawal, it would fall out and with each thrust, it would miss. We became frustrated and stopped again with "no anal orgasm for me!"

I've thought long and hard about this, and with my "anal lover" becoming my "former anal lover" (which means that she has left "the picture", not by my choice, and won't be back), I considered and decided, the only way I'm going to have an anal orgasm is to find an experience woman who knows how to wield a strap-on or "the real thing" from a guy!

I want to have an Anal Orgasm!!!
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Cum on Your Face
Posted:Mar 2, 2008 9:53 am
Last Updated:Oct 23, 2019 8:37 am
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I know a lot of guys and maybe a few gals know about a picture oriented web site called "Cum on Your Face". For those of you who aren't familiar with it, it deals with a single female, sometimes more, and a bunch of guys and they do a lot of sexual activity,like a gang-bang, before all the guys cum on her face, hence the title.

I was having an erotic dream the other night and woke up before it was finished. The dream was not as important as what I did about it. Unable to get back to the dream, I started thinking about. The more I thought about it; the hornier I got! I have a fuck buddy who has a desire for a gang-bang but is inhibited about doing it even though she loves being the "center of attention" of a group of guys. I was thinking, if I could get her hooked up with these guys, from CoYF, they are "slick enough" that they could seduce any female to do what they wanted to do but she normally wouldn't. I started jerking off to this thought. The more I visualized, the exciter I got until I saw her with cum spewing all on her face. At that point, I had a "rip-roaring" orgasm. I had visualized cumming on her face with the rest of the guys.

As I was in the afterglow of a fantastic orgasm, I realized my shoulder was wet and gooey. I had actually "shot my load" that far, almost over my shoulder. I realized that if I would have been more on center, I would have hit myself in the face. I started laughing because would where my "load" might have landed, qualify me to appear on "Cum on Your Face".
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Dr. Strangelove or: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Love the Bomb!!!
Posted:Feb 16, 2008 10:41 am
Last Updated:Nov 5, 2011 8:05 am
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SHIT!

Damn, that was suppose to be :

"Dr. StrangeLove, Anal Fascination , or: How I Learned to Stop Worrying and Enjoy the Bisexual" - {Male Bisexuality maybe "looked down upon by most; whereas, Female Bisexuality is accepted generally; "Thank Goodness" for other accepting Bi-Men!!}

At a very early age (5 to be exact ), I became aware of "anal play" on my own. That was an "age of innocence", when were suppose to be "sexless". During this time, I was "closeted" in my interest (no one ever knew about my fascination ) and I played at it "sololy".

By the age of 10, I had my first "heterosexual" experience. It was "actual" anal penetration. It was with the little girl next door while taking a bath (our mothers would put us in the tub together while they "visited" downstairs ) It was anal because it was the only "hole" that we, the girl and I, both knew about that could fucked and we thought we were "fucking" just like everybody else. (that was the only time because, not too long after that, our mothers stopped us from taking baths together )That really re-enforced my desires about being anal even though I only pushed it in and never "pumped" or orgasmed just left my pecker inserted till I withdrew it. Later that year, one of my buddies explained to me about "cum" and how to "make it" by jerking-off and "how great it felt" when it happened. He even showed me how and when I couldn't "cum", he tried jerking me off. (my first bisexual experience ) During a camp-out that summer, the guys were sharing what we knew about sex (nobody knew about "oral" until high school ). I became daring and offered "I'll let anybody fuck my butt if I can fuck yours" (thinking guys and girls both had butts so why couldn't I fuck a guy and be fucked by a guy? ) It never really happen even though I had one "taker". (I was so excited that I was unable "to raise a hard-on" and my ass was so tight from excitement that he failed to penetrate me, little did we know about lubrication ) Not too long after that, "guy contact" became "Gay" and people were "homophobic" so any activity like that, was a "No-No" and that was the extent of my bi-play till recently.

Over the years, I've introduced more than my share of females to the "joys of Anal Sex". I had thought anal sex was painful for the "receiver", from my only experience as being a "receiver", and it was only done by females who wanted "to please their guys". As my "skills and knowledge" improved, I discovered it could be pleasurable for everybody. No being "homophobic" anymore, while being "open minded" and accepting of bisexuality in my late 50's, my "anal interests" took a different direction! (most definitely!! you might say they reverted back to night of "Guy Sex Talk" camp-out!! )

BUT what I really enjoy being - is the "guy in the middle" of a MMF3SOME!
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Consider this
Posted:Feb 3, 2008 12:24 pm
Last Updated:May 25, 2012 7:24 pm
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Over the years, I've introduced more than my share of females to the "joys of Anal Sex", now it would be nice to find some that want to introduce me to "The Joys"!

Do you find it difficult to meet M/F couples, our age, where the male is bi or bi-curious and are willing to play as a 3some?

I enjoy MFM 3somes and have had several "straight ones". I consider myself a straight male but when things get "hot and Heavy" and when the people are right, I think I would be excited enough to do some very bi things but it only seems to happen in " mixed company" in the "heat of the moment"; never as a man2man. Being with just a guy, I've never felt comfortable with. I'm not into kissing and cuddling or being romantic with a guy; it's the sex, the activity, have him suck my dick, fuck my ass; it would all have to be shared with a female! There are so many things that I want to do with a couple. I'm very oral and a former fuck buddy was so into anal that I was envious of her pleasure that I wanted to try it. We've played with dildos and strap-ons and I'm comfortable taking it but I really want to feel the real thing.

I've approached several couples with a bi-male about meetings and when we're talking about limits and I tell them that I'm anal-friendly and would like to try it. They tend to disappear. I realize a lot of bi guys are just into sucking to various degrees but I wonder if it's because the guys might think because I offer up my ass that that they are suppose to also or they're just not interested in butt fucking? I've asked them directly about why but so far I've never gotten an answer.

What are your thoughts? And thanks for your input.
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Men in MFM3somes
Posted:Feb 3, 2008 11:56 am
Last Updated:May 5, 2013 9:46 pm
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Are men becoming less intimidated form social stigma of same sex play (oral and anal) in the confines of a MFM 3some?
There are areas for males and females to respond separately.
Male responding : NO!
Male responding : Yes, but Oral activity only.
Male responding : Yes, but Anal activity only.
Male responding : Yes, it doesn't matter, they are both enjoyable!
Female responding : No!
Female responding : Yes, men that are already oral are just expanding their pleasure!
Female responding : Yes, finally men can "Take it up the Ass" and it is nice to watch!
Female responding : Yes, it's great to see men are able to have their full realm of sexuality!
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