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Makin a list...
Posted:Nov 15, 2015 9:22 am
Last Updated:Feb 22, 2019 8:51 am
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And checkin it twice
Goin to try to keep everything nice
List of blogs, thoughts, pondering, wishing, and daily fun...

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On sex The kind of fg I need __ Sexy sounds he makes -- SomedaysConstant state of arousal -- Intimacy and the moment __ What kind of style __searching forThe other side to casual fwbs

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My searches: not currently looking for anyone new.

Tongue Goes in First tonight__Squirty needs towels__Flirty Friday __Sinday morning and The list
another day done__Finding your MOJO
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world of words __ Logical right__Friday __ What kind of style
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Just for daily FUN
Finally Friday__ Just another day in paradise __ Saturday free time
another chilly winter night j14n16 __ Sexy saturday night j3n16
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Fine! I'll go camping
Posted:Jun 14, 2019 8:34 am
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2019 1:14 pm
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But I shouldn't point fingers, we have a cabin on a semi private lake. Lol

Enjoy your weekend and your hot dates
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Boots to dresses
Posted:Jun 13, 2019 1:31 pm
Last Updated:Jun 14, 2019 3:15 pm
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Steel toe boots that is.

I spend all week in my boots, some weekends too pending whats going on at the ranch. So when I have a chance to shave and toss a dress on I will take full advantage of it. Yes i know dresses aren't for everyone and I dont expect men to clean up for a date.

But I like dresses! Or skirts with a nice top!



Where I live it doesn't lend well for dressing up, so I have started the 'dinner date' nights with the kinksters. Where I find a nice restaurant we can meet at and spend an evening with good food n drink and not have to worry about finding an inexpensive place that suits every ones budget.

With this hectic month past, I can now plan the 5 course paired with drinks meal! Semi formal evening that will be arranged by a dinner in advance.
Then I will 2 other establishments in the area to see if they are mainly casual dress places or if they offer formal dining.

Either way looking to trade in my steel toes, long sleeves and -vis for a form fitting dress and good food.

Don't worry, I dont ever ask any new dates if they are interested in a good restaurant. They get a parking lot meet up or coffee shop, so they don't have to worry about anything.
Hence why I started the dinner date nights for those that want a change of pace.

In case you didn't catch it, , want my boots off, i want to relax with some good food and enjoy the freedom of a summer dress.
Patio weather!
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Humpday'ish
Posted:Jun 12, 2019 7:23 pm
Last Updated:Jun 13, 2019 1:04 pm
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Some days it would be nice if sex, good sex, was as simple as this:



Multiple cock and orgasms sound fun though! I guess my thinkin has been sidetracked because there are a few clubs hosting summer sex parties in the next few months...


At least at a sex party where guy fails or isn't interested there will more willing at least try.. And if I use my imagination just right I can roll up all the mediocre humping they will be doing into a fine fantasy (believe me on this . ).

I have definitely thought of hosting a sex party here in the Thomp okanagan but I have a sneaky feeling that it would be mainly women showing up. Lol!
The amount of vetting especially for the men becomes almost a part time job with a flake , been there done that but its a fun idea.

Anyway, happy humpday

(Lord help me with the deleted words!!)
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Humpday'ish coming up
Posted:Jun 11, 2019 6:17 pm
Last Updated:Jun 13, 2019 11:52 am
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So random question of the day, or is that questions, or just ponderings..

Do you make your partners beg for sex from you?
Are they in such a big holding pattern that its a few weeks or months between visits, so you make them chase you for whatever little bit of sex you toss thier way?



Women are a dime a dozen, so do you make it known to them they are just another on the list?

In a relationship beyond fuck buddies, do you withhold sex from her just push her buttons, or for negative reinforcement for her wanting too much sex?

Curious about it because I've had my share of monogamous partners withhold sex and intimacy because I wanted it more than them

Anyhoo
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Question on a monday...
Posted:Jun 10, 2019 5:56 pm
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2019 4:57 pm
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Not a sinday post, but one that has crossed my page a few times including in a few of the books I'm reading and on a few articles or blogs, and in my kink discussion groups:

What does 'bad sex' mean to you in terms of Your experience?
Can you define why it was bad?



Super interested in peral experiences and stories (helps me in not feeling like I'm the only one) plus I just like to see the varying views!


One that was particularly meh felt like he should have just left money on the dresser. He did everything he needed to do to orgasm and really didn't touch me besides his cock in my hole ...it was just a weirdly awkward experience and one that tipped the scale in favor of losing interest in casual sex. Obviously there are some really bad dates and some even more meh, but I'm not in the mood for a long story.

Anyhoo, I'm looking forward to some different views!
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Pre-sinday
Posted:Jun 8, 2019 8:29 pm
Last Updated:Jun 11, 2019 1:08 pm
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Our internet will be down till tuesdayish so I have to drive to the nearest cell tower just to get some distraction in.

Its stormy, some lightning, some rain, some sun, but managed to get some yard work done and some gardening..ie: weeding. Lol

A brisk storm coming through this morning sent me inside for a wee bit,

just enough to rub one out.
Grungy garden clothes en'all.
My hands where washed though, cos yanno garden gloves only keep so much dirt off.

I am workin on not fantasizing about men, but gawd darn it I ended up thinkin about someones hard cock and sexy hands.
Then I started to think on my ex-casuals manfur and thick cock...
So much for learning to just clear my mind and masturbate for my own pleasure. Lol

Anyway
Its been since dec twenty-nine for my last good all night of fuckin that finally satiated my sexual hunger, well, for the day. .
Yikes! I know right?! I just thought of that on my drive here to check my messages.

And my ladybits are horny today, I will have a ladyboner tonight, and I will wake up with ladywood in the mornin.
Now where are those men open to ongoing.


Enjoy your evening
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Finally Friday
Posted:Jun 7, 2019 2:15 pm
Last Updated:Jun 8, 2019 8:14 pm
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When you are soo horny that the seem in your jeans is distracting,
it does make for a long day though.

Life has been so hectic lately that I have not had time for a long sensual jill session. Blue bean is real folks!
At most I have been able to rub one out a couple of times over the last 6 weeks.
Yikes!

But ya we can't all be so lucky to find hot dates and reliable partners for when you really really need that extra hand, or tongue, or hard cock filling my mouth...



But in the meantime I will be able to get my hike in, or maybe fishing. Need some distraction from my horniness.
I may stop for dinner with the kinksters, but depends if I am still in town or not by 630pm (kinda one of those times where its nice to have a DOC (dic on call) then I can easily burn a few hours sexing it up!)
Ya ya I know, men don't like to be used for sex just as much as women don't, I get it.
But I will have to look at harmony this weekend and decide on a super vanilla profile. Maybe I can find a sex positive, sexually active, kink friendly single man on there.... yes I know you have to be conventionally attractive to have vanilla profiles, but that site doesn't allow for much info on it anyway. Besides I want to find someone that sees me as a whole per and not just as a random hole to fill.

Enjoy your hot dates this weekend!
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Need a new ad
Posted:Jun 6, 2019 6:26 pm
Last Updated:Jun 7, 2019 10:17 pm
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Something that I do to time is to read ads in localish groups, mainly on the kink site but sometimes on here and on the dating sites.



Some days I really want to message those profiles and ask if they received any responses, I want to know about all responses and not just the failure to attract 21 yr old cheerleader. Lol
I have posted all sorts of ads throughout the last years of searching for kink friendly and sex positive men, barely ever receiving a response 'cept maybe one or two from guys that really didn't read the ad or my profile. But then it doesn't surprise me because half native living in the interior of BC, there is no line up of men willing to meet in public.
Which is another rea why I don't believe all the hype around women having full inboxes, maybe the skinny caucasian women 30 get those sausage fests.

Where was I
Oh ya, ads!
I have responded to a few of the fuckboy ads on this site, but was met with much disappointment. Apparently I wasn't the target female audience for his 'any vagina will do', or I would have to send a bunch of photos to prove myself?!
Or they guy that would be super eager to meet but first send photos! Only to discover he is only looking for online play.
Of the guys that want to play on cam so i can prove my hotness, only to discover hd has no intention of meeting in real life.
So I stopped trying on this site, apparently a woman open to meetkng for nsa sex is too easy so not worth the effort.
And the few that did meet, and the very few that I tried to have sex with all completely bombed. Apparently he needs to see you as a whole n real per before he will put effort into the sex. 🙄

I have responded to ads on the kink site, more to clarify his age or race preferences. Most times he was looking for someone waaay than , or a whole lot thinner. So I stopped bothering replying to ads.

But anyway,
My ads have never netted any potential partners nor has anything I ever wrote, wore, or not worn...
Have you ever had luck with your ads seeking dating/sex/kink?
Do your profiles on dating sites bring the people in like flies to honey?


Just curious because my ads never gain any traction, but then hosting meet n greet grouos don't either.
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Kink party coming up
Posted:Jun 3, 2019 3:02 pm
Last Updated:Jun 6, 2019 11:22 am
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And I haven't had the time to search for something to wear.
It's just been hectic here and our internet has been down in the evenings... any I may not even bother to dress up this time...as not like there will be single men there anyway.


Though, I am looking for a new skirt and top that will complement the corset. I have a few ideas but looking for availability and my size. Yada yada yada.
I just have a tough time looking online and paying for something I have not tried on, lets just say that a rectangular shape is hard to find clothes for.
I more dress up at home on the rare occasion when I have the time to, which is about once or twice a year. Lol.
Though I need a new professional photographer to take photos...one that isn't going to constantly go on n on bout my appearance, ethnicity, and age. (Harder to find than you think because most photographers will only put effort into attractive younger women, as they look better in thier portfolios).

As for being busy and craving sex, ya on both counts.
I have managed to jill off a couple of times this last week, both times to the thought of having a reliable partner to sex it up with. I know.

In the meantime I have to color my hair in the next couple of weeks, so least I will have fresh color for the party. And fresh color always cheers me up even if its just me that sees it.

Harmony is the next stop for the search...lets just say that I am not looking forward to that site one bit. Last time I was on there it was a very negative experience, so I hope the people have improved on it.... pfft

Anway,
Why is this world becoming soo shallow, what ever happened to the good sex and stimulating conversations.
Another year of no sex and all my sexual confidence will be reset to virginal. Which I guess would be a good thing for most men because I will have no expectations for anything other than a 2min boner and clumsy touching my bits and a complete lack of enthusiasm for sexing it up.

Ahh soo much to look forward to.

Living in the boonies with no bf experience within reaable driving distance.
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Thoughts on a Tues
Posted:May 28, 2019 1:52 pm
Last Updated:Jun 2, 2019 6:00 pm
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Disclaimer: ya ya I know I should look on harmony if I want pleasure and orgasms, those on harmony yes I know dont expect anything and yes keep saying if I want a healthy sex life then I should look elsewhere. Got it. 🙄



Tuesday pondering over 'living vicariously through others'
Like I have mentioned before, I often think or daydream about the kind of sex or kink that I see on my screen. Of course my mind will fill in the storyline to suit my fap imaging
At one time I had a very vivid imagination, so much so that I could be lost in those thoughts for longer than a fleeting minute. Enough to drive me to search and settle on whoever would chat with me long enough to meet up (hence why I had far too many incompatible dates and just down right bad meet ups). So I have learned to control my thoughts, my libido, my sex drive, and keep my imagination pretty plain, gelatin, and boring. Lol

One day I will be able to explore my libido and imagination once again, or maybe never, but now it doesn't bother me as much knowing that I may just be living vicariously through others. 😊

Anyway,
When was the last time you had a good first meet? (not even having sex, but just meeting someone interesting).


I know I need to just start meeting again...but my energy that I want to put into floats away at the thought of it. Bad, ya I know.
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Rainy day
Posted:May 25, 2019 8:14 am
Last Updated:May 28, 2019 5:33 pm
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And how I want to spend my Saturday,



The search goes on n on even though I'm running out of fucks'to give.

I have been actively searching for a male rope bottom to practice bondage on, but lets just say there's no line up of men looking for kink without sex.
If I had a larger population of queer men in my area then finding a non-sexual partner would be easier,... which I should ask my friend if he would let me practice on his partner as he may adventurous enough to try.

There is a kink party coming up again, and I am hoping to get a couple of meet n greets tossed in, and the dinner night out with other kinksters. Other than that, just yard work and some hikin n fishin. Plus work a trip to grande prairie in July'ish.


Anyway, I better get on the hwy.
Enjoy your day
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