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Posted:Oct 16, 2019 9:44 am
Last Updated:Oct 23, 2019 9:28 am

Who is interested in a day time party? Looking get a few folks together who enjoy sex in various flavors to have a laid back, no drama, sane, clean ddf time during the day. Would like to make it a regular thing. Couples, bi, m/f let's see what we can come up with.

Only thing I wouldn't want is over the top attitudes, ill behavior or being disrespectful of limits or actions along with laws. No means no. No judgement zone.
Where am I?
Posted:Sep 7, 2019 7:02 am
Last Updated:Oct 23, 2019 5:52 am

Local for awhile, Somerset/Princeton 206 areas.
Friday Berkeley Heights area, afternoon.
Saturday Del Val afternoon.
Daddy's Girl
Posted:Aug 9, 2019 10:09 am
Last Updated:Sep 7, 2019 7:13 am

Characteristics of a Daddy
*** I do not take credit for this I found this

The following are some of the fundamental characteristics, and indeed needs, that all Daddy dominants seem to share universally:
1. Her Number One Fan, the Daddy usually believes in his girl more than she herself does, and often uses the wisdom of his age to see her not only for who she is, but also for who she can become. A Daddy’s eyes light up when his girl enters the room. He is proud of her and praises her for not just for what she accomplishes, but for what she attempts, and for who she is. He accepts her for who she is, flaws and all.
2. And he knows all her flaws because he is also her ultimate Confidant, allowing her to bare her soul to him beyond all others. She may have many different relationships and types of friends in her life. But Daddy will be her “umbrella confidant.” The one with whom she can talk about absolutely anything and trust that what she tells Daddy stays with Daddy. He is the one from whom she withholds nothing. The one who doesn’t mind if she needs to call and talk at 3am.
3. He is the Protector of his girl against real or perceived threats, dangers, and bad people. Sometimes a little girl just needs to curl up in Daddy’s arms and smile at some of his bluster, and sometimes the Daddy may have to act on his protective instincts. Pity the person who messes with a Daddy’s girl.
4. Her Teacher and mentor shows her new things that come from a longer and possibly wider set of life experiences. Daddy likes to take his girl to places she has never been, feed her foods she has never eaten, and do activities she has never enjoyed before. He is never so happy as when he can look in her eyes and know he has given her something she has never had before. This also translates into sexual adventurism for some Daddy/girl couples. He symbolically deflowers her on a regular basis, whether that be sexual or just in exposure to new life adventures.
5. He wants to be her Guide and advisor. As the girl makes her way in the world, Daddy wants to be there to answer her questions, calm her fears, make her insecurities go away, and give her sound advice based on his years of experience.
6. Anchor. The Daddy dom is an unyielding, unmovable anchor in the storm. No matter what happens in the girl’s life, she knows her Daddy will be right there where he has always been, and she can hold onto that even if she is blinded by her own tears. Daddies know the storm will pass, and she will be safe, but she needs something to hold onto that will not move.
7. Disciplinarian. When the girl acts badly, she expects to be disciplined or punished for the infraction. Most Daddy dominants find it occasionally difficult to keep this up, especially as the affection for their girl grows. They would love nothing more than to spoil their girls, but they realize this is the path to ruin. One a girl begins to believe she can manipulate Daddy, she no longer sees him as her dominant, unyielding anchor. A girl needs the stability and protection of a man who is more dominant than she is. To demonstrate that characteristic, Daddies must sometimes be excessively strict and rigid, more so than they would in normal relationships. The act of disciplining the girl may be used as part of a sadomasochistic activity.
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Jokes - because we need to smile more
Posted:Aug 9, 2019 5:03 am
Last Updated:Oct 23, 2019 9:28 am

A wife asked her husband a you know a bull fucks over three thousand times a year? Why can't you fuck like a bull?

The husband tells his wife to ask the bull if he fucks the same cow every day?
Posted:Aug 8, 2019 8:14 am
Last Updated:Aug 9, 2019 5:04 am

Been itching to orally please both at the same time. I enjoy pleasing both, hearing both moans of pleasure...switching back and forth between them. edging each closer and closer...afternoon delight? your place? make it happen.
Pet Peeves
Posted:Aug 7, 2019 8:40 am
Last Updated:Aug 21, 2019 5:39 am

Being a frustrated user on lately, are you?
- Instant Messenger seems to never work, tells you people are on when they are not, doesn't connect when 2 people both know they are there and online and trying to IM.
- People who say they want whatever and then never answer you when you say I'm interested, wig out when actually addressing the need or just flat out lie. It's a relatively anonymous site until you post a face or meet some one. Why all the games...and guys posting as couples, I get it if your other half bails, it happens. But at least have the courtesy to put up front so people know.
- Not being able post contact emails, if IM doesn't work, some can't read emails or if IM does work are limited the site becomes useless. I can get putting a limit day but I think more people would use and for the site if there was a bit more freedom.
- and finally for now, why is everyone so stuck up these days? No one is perfect, sorry. Love the one your with at moment, live and let live. a fellow/gal out once in awhile in a friendly way surely doesn't hurt (all things being equal). Smile, we need more of them these days.
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What I seek, more or less
Posted:Jul 19, 2019 8:37 am
Last Updated:Aug 22, 2019 8:20 am

To those who are interested in me here is what I seek...
When local I'm looking for a couple or nice individuals (female/male) who are ok with a little bi activity or want to try. I like to be orally serviced and touched all over and open to mild alternate activities. I can be a top although my upbringing still demands I respect all and prefer to have things done for me versus forcing anyone to do something they normally would not try. I do not mind if the activities does lead to different places but at the end of the day you and I will respect each other and if it goes there, you will cherish the time spent together. I like those who want to please and be pleased by their actions toward me along with those enjoy being watched.

I am not looking for freaks or those freely expressing themselves via dressing in alternate gear as their day to day, tats, piercings where the average business professional type would not have them. I like refined yet casual, I would wear shorts and sneakers year round if I could. I do clean up well although you will not see me on the GQ cover. You should shower daily and pick up your clothes and put dirty ones in a hamper. Not looking for spotless but it is a reflection on you and if we are to be it will be a reflection on me and my choices as well. Do not disappoint.
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Pleasing them both - True Story
Posted:Jun 10, 2019 9:37 am
Last Updated:Aug 12, 2019 6:53 am

Work was getting a bit boring so I took a chance a early lunch with a couple who wanted me to please them both together, orally and manually the same time. A challenge! Showed up a roadside hotel to find them both naked in bed and in short order the 3 of us were there together. She said she wanted to see him get sucked and to suck a guy, his first time. He said he wanted to watch and hear/feel her while I did the same to her and him...well without hesitation I saw he was already hard so I started there. slowly taking it in my mouth, tongue moving around, feeling his balls, stroking the shaft, I then started to use my other hand to with her pussy.. quickly finding her clit and teasing, rubbing my hand over it, moving around her pussy, inserting, teasing her upper level and then back to her clit....she responded with her hips moving...all this time I was still sucking, licking him...then as she was getting more into things I moved to her with my mouth, still holding his cock, caressing his balls while I used my tongue to work her into a orgasm as one hand found her right nipple and worked it until she was bucking my face and moaning and little little whimpers from the work on her nipples....when she pushed back I went back to work on him orally still touching her belly, chest and then after a minute or two started again to with her pussy once she calmed down, she quickly started to move to my touch while he also worked her pussy while I got his dick firmly between my lips, one hand on the shaft....after awhile I went back to her orally and again worked her into what seemed like a long orgasm as my face was wet....stroking his cock...he worked her top while I was soaked in her now multiple orgasms...when she needed a break I went back to him and I swallowed what he had...I then laid between both and while she stroked my thigh, teased my cock and balls she told him it's his turn...he was nervous if not sure at all but she took his hand and placed on me...he slowly started to rub up and down....she said kiss it....he reluctantly did and after a couple of starts he had me firmly between his lips while she moved down to him...they took turns licking balls, shaft...and she was prodding my back regions turning me on even more until I was just wanting it all to happen....I want to find a couple for this again and for more regular times....
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Daytime meets
Posted:Nov 6, 2018 8:07 am
Last Updated:Jul 23, 2019 11:31 am

Thinking of how some of us can make the time to get together so here is an idea based on the fact they most have to work or give the illusion of doing so. Perhaps we could meet at a hotel or home and as long as there is wifi we could "login" while there to catch a few emails, or do a little work while others or take a break...sounds a little crazy but this would take care of 2 requirements, 2 of us it would extend the time for fun while not compromising work and personal time/space.

Let me know your thoughts. I have done this in the past although a few years ago and it worked well. A few hours verse for the moment would make for a more enjoyable time among sexual friends.

Couples, single, married, , bisexual, bi, alternative, cuckold, D/s all good
Clean, sane, ddf, respectful, rules no means no.
Day time
Posted:Aug 31, 2018 11:18 am
Last Updated:Oct 16, 2019 9:37 am

Looking for a bi gentleman (or couple) who can host regularly between Flemington and Somerville areas or Princeton - Montgomery. If you are local you will know the area. I have a nice older late 40s woman who wishes to have regular meetings with 2 (or more) bi guys. There are several requirements she has set:
- be over 50, prefer late 50s or active 60s
- shorter stocky guys ok, be over 7 inches (for her), white/latin, and be able to last
- must be bi, no exceptions, she will want to see you suck me and more.
- MUST BE ABLE to HOST at YOUR PLACE, no motels period. (I know, it's her requirement)
- Couples, she is not bi so she says, she wants to fuck at the end of the day and have it go for a long time, hence her wanting 2 guys as older guys in her words don't last long...well you know.
- Age is a deal breaker unless you got something extra, she is not looking for her older sons, she wants mature acting and looks.
- Be available for later afternoons weekdays, some spur of the moment weekends and off weekday days for quickies.
- be available for just me and maybe a bi friend on occasion.

This is very real, looking for quality. Nonsmoking clean ddf and sane all a must. Not looking for freaks or crazy (no judging just what works for us).

If you are looking for a bi friendly guy let me know as I also would like to find a situation just for me.
Honey, who is here? True Story
Posted:Oct 20, 2017 8:13 am
Last Updated:Aug 7, 2019 8:28 am

That's the voice you never want to here when you are upstairs in their bed with a spouse that doesn't know. Well, I heard it awhile back and it scared the crap out of me. We had been together before, several times in their bed. I would come over, typically lunch time, get naked, lay back and got orally serviced...dressed and left without much fanfare.

Well this day was beautiful, warm sunny and I had a late lunch, I got a invite to come over a bit later...we went up stairs, it was hot...I was so hot I was squirming like a little submissive it felt so good...warm mouth, fingers, hands roaming amd probing...I was lost in the moment. "Honey, who is hear?" WHAT! "Honey where are you?" I said someone is hear, just kept working on me....Honey? I tapped out, as the voice had the air of concern now. I ran with my clothes into the bathroom, the only thing I could think of....I was shaking, what's next?!!

I got dressed, fumbling like a fool...1000 thoughts racing, what if this or that? Oh shit, now what? I heard a knock on the door, "you OK"? I followed down the stairs, not knowing what to expect, what I would hear or face. Lucky the stairs were near the door, some words were mumbled but I just made a direct path toward my car, which was parked all the way in the driveway...I put the car in reverse, and got out, down the road I went....thinking oh shit oh shit oh shit! My mind raced the balance of the day...I got an email later, "this will be an interesting conversation..." was what I read...I never heard back....I feel bad...stunned, ashamed, bad for what happened...but I need the touch, the orgasms, the feeling....
The Office Surprise - true story
Posted:Oct 19, 2017 7:44 am
Last Updated:Apr 17, 2019 5:16 am

Come to the office and let's chat he said. So I went to the office, everyone had left he said but he was uneasy. He kept looking at his phone, he had a tracking application on her, where was she. It kept indicating she was nearby but she told him she was going food shopping then home, perfect. Or so I thought.

I sat in the leather chair, took the shoes off getting ready to lower my pants but he was pacing in and out of the office with his phone. "not sure" etc....I had my belt undone, he looked smiled then back to his phone...this was uncomfortable, finally I said if you are not sure about it let's not. Then, another door next to his office opened.

She came out of her office, shoes off, it was his wife! She said, "yeah, might not be a good idea.." or something like that as my chin hit the floor. He was standing between us for a minute unsure of what was next. She said "...I thought I'd see who his lover was...". Well she found an interesting twist. Now what, do I run, do I engage in conversation...She said a few more things, asked my name, I told her Bert. I wanted to stay, to see where this would lead, would she secretly want to play or cut them off...I looked at him, her and my flight instinct said it was time to go. She said nice to meet you, I said thank you as I took the biggest steps I could to leave.

Should I of stayed to see where the action would lead? We have since continued in the office and home at limited times. He loves to service me without recip, I enjoy it, he plays with my bottom which drives me wild when it all aligns but I always wonder. Should I stayed that time to see, to possible expand or did I do right by running to fight another day?

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Daddy's Girl (2)HAMONMAN
Aug 9, 2019 11:24 am
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What I seek, more or less (2)HAMONMAN
Jul 19, 2019 10:35 am
Pleasing them both - True Story (2)HAMONMAN
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