There's always the question of how long to put up with being ignored, neglected, taken for granted before it's time to move on. It might be temporary, based on what's going on in life or a specific situation that you know is going to pass. So you put up with it, fight through. Or it could be signs of things coming to an end. But what are you supposed to do if someone won't even address it, talk about it? Being an adult and having a real conversation is my preference. WIthout engagement on both sides though...
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Just my two cents
At some point you have to say enough is enough and move on. To be clear that may be difficult to do but once you have done it you wonder why you didn’t do it earlier.
Good luck
I guess it depends on what’s been invested in it’s entirety and what value it holds, but if someone went total cold shouldered it may need a bit of time to resolve whether good or bad in fixing it or moving on.
It involves both parties to be 100% participants in solving the "issue". One alone can't do it if the other doesn't want to or is not really putting any effort. I was married for 25 years and even going to couples therapy didn't work. Once they wanted to see her alone, she took that as a "you all against me attitude" and quit going. Even tho, I stayed because of my dauther. But it was a hell I won't recommend anyone to go through. So, i decided to file for divorce since I knew I wasn't divorcing of being a parent, just a husband. Love, appreciation, respect was simply vanished. At one point sooner or later one needs to recognize also that it is over. That's just my personal experience, others may prevail and continue.