Anything unconnected and self gratifying, at one point in my life I couldn't ever imagine sex becoming a physical act, it was always spiritual and just being in the dark and discovering it and continuing to hear lies, I see how sex becomes a simple physical act, and to be frank, I don't like it all that much, it doesn't turn me on as a demisexual when the connection ends it's over.

I'm the same way I am a male and receiving oral has really never done much for me as well. The whole situation just ends up making me feel guilty because the woman has put in a lot of effort and tried to the best of her ability and the end result never happens. So she is left with the feeling of being inadequate or bad at it. So I'm just up front about it in saying "hey, this isn't worth starting this particular process cause it will leave us both unsatisfactory and a shitty feeling."

I'm not this way anymore but I used to not be able to enjoy because I had the stigma in my head that it was very disrespectful. But I live by double standard it was okay for me. To add someone pointed out to me about how much I like it and that if I'm taking that away from somebody else. The way they explain it was better but it changed everything and now really enjoy it

That's completely understandable and 100% your choice. Also, while reading the post. It was like reading it from a man on other posts here. lmfao! On point word for word. Now, that said... some men (myself included) simply love giving a woman oral. Just as there are women who love giving blowjobs. My question is, will this act still part of an intimate sexual encounter with a woman that doesn't like oral in that sense you described (not stimulating and/or arousing her desires) and not because she finds it nasty, shame, self-consciousness or hygienic? Don't get me wrong. No is no. If she prefers not to allow me. That's ok too.

In regards to the question. When they try experimenting by inserting things through the back. They said prostate stimulation is something different. But, I can live without knowing. LOL

My ex GF did not like oral, she was one of the ~20% of women who can climax from just penetration, and she liked the feel of my cock insider her to squeeze on when she was cumming, so I understand it. She would orgasm quite quickly from oral, usually about 5 minutes. My not likes are anal, giving or receiving, although I don't mind putting my tongue in a nice clean, tight woman's ass.

I would say anal sex especially receiving

Maybe it’s just male experience vs female experience. I have had some amazingly skilled people give me an amazing deep throat blowjob and then I’ve had painful bending experiences that I asked someone to stop. Oral seems more of a unique individual experience on the male side. Does it all feel the same on your side? I’m just curious, because obviously I don’t know how it feels, but I would think skill sets would be different in a similar manner.