Often, when I tell a man I am not interested, he asks why.
First off, a woman does not owe anyone an explanation for saying no.
Second, if I respond "Because I'm not", you should walk away.
Finally, a man who is unable to move on and keeps messaging deserves one of two outcomes: being ignored or getting a virtual ear full.
If your ego and male privilege has you believing you should keep messaging, I just might flip to bitch mode and I won't hold back. It's probably hard to believe, but you're not "all that", nor will you convince me to change my mind. You are showing who you truly are and simply reinforcing the fact that I made the right choice to begin with.
To the real men out there, the ones who treat women with respect, you are appreciated.
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Sometimes we just want to know what went wrong. Men have been trying to understand women for ions. When it doesn't work out we just want to make ourselves better. Life is so short as the earth keeps spinning faster....
i like your approach and those who approach you should respect your response, whether you have interest or you dont. i would say it would be a positive to respect all responses from all women. period.
Thank you for the compliment I'm a man who loves to treat women with respect and I don't have any disrespect for any woman unless they did me wrong
Courtesy, polite conversation, an attempt to find some common ground, alas, all seem to belong to an earth roamed by the dinosaurs!
Never did understand why some guys think that being obnoxious is the way to get sex with a woman - surely, in the history of mankind, that has never worked...
I hate the why question. I never want to insult or appear rude. Not everyone is a match