It used to be much better. I have been on here a long time. I have made friends with men and women (I am straight)... that have led to business deals and major friendships. Some people are still my friends to this day. Culture has changed. Many of my friends who used to be swingers...are now religious. I have taken an automated approach and I have had some success. I feel you..hang in there.

Great response I robot. I was on this site about 10 years ago and met some great people. I just returned a few months ago and so far, decent communication, but no meetings, which is fine. Always enjoy the journey, in retrospect, it’s often better than the destination.

I was thinking the same thing. Glad you asked this. I'm not a weirdo or an asshole. Its already hard trying to bring up worthy conversation and then to be ghosted or find out they were just catfish or bots.

I have had success here.... and it's not AFF that sucks, it's people. Once you accept that 98% of people here NEVER want to meet, you will go into it with a different mindset. I have a number of cyber "friends" who are really great people that I write to often, have met some great people, and have had some soul shaking fun, so those things make the membership worth it, but it's really hard. When you connect with someone, really lock in and treat them well.... but do not overwhelm them with eagerness. Be calm, articulate your interest, and then let things flow.

Ain't that always the way? The ones near you are either scammers or not interested and the ones that do give you play are no where near you. It's been years since I met with anyone from this site but I guess it is possible. I mostly come here when I'm bored these days.