Why has this become so dam hard????
Over the years I have met others on here. Some were nice meetings that ended with a nice to meet you. A couple were nightmares. Most ended up with some fun at the end. A few ended up being long term flings, until they moved away to other places. Ever since Covid this site just seems to have shut down. What happened? I see women (strangely never close to me) asking for men but I never see any results. Hard to believe that all of these are fake profiles.
Any thoughts? Ladies I would love to hear your take.
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I've been hearing alot from people the same thing scammers, fake profiles. I got stood up a month ago by a couple and they gave me a false address wasted my time and gas driving a hour away. I've heard from a few people who said years ago when they first got on here it wasn't as hard as it is now its sad.
AS someone that has been on here for many years, it is almost impossible to meet off here. If it helps I got screwed the same way, person wasted my time and I drove an hour to meet. One thing I do now is no phone chat at least once=no meet.
@reallyready46 oh wow how long have you been on here?
@realblkgrlncol93 16 years or more.
@reallyready46 i been on almost 20 so crazy since covid and site changd its almost impossible to find real meets for what i seek.
@clevebbw I agree ever since Covid it defneitley has changed
@realblkgrlncol93 My take is that...unemployment having gone sky high during Covid times... in turn increased the money and "attention" scammers ratio on all these sites. From a small wave it became a strong current...so eventually many folks got to be in a defensive mode...by default. Not that it was easy, before Covid, to get a flesh to flesh date...but it surely became harder since then. A tender kiss 💋 Jane
@agreatcouple2019 Great point one I have not seen before. Jane I think you are onto something.
You never see any real women who are nearby because all this shit is fake as fuck! Last time I met a woman from here was 5 years ago and she lived 75 plus miles away. Anybody in town can't get them to say jack shit.
Right or you message people and they either block you or just view your profile and don't say anything
So I was traveling last year. I did a search of local people where I was going and came up with a couple. When I got on their profiles all of a sudden other local people were their friends. I do think there are times people are afraid of meeting people that are to local to them.
Im real a bbw tho. , had plenty photos of me n guys, & testimonies. but i want to meet those who fit what i seek, like age n such. Indont just fuck anyone and everything like some. Use to meet on reg basis before covid since then all talk n stand ups/noshows, insults, and being blocked.
I think we are all more leery now with scams, crime, extortion, disease,
Good points
The amount of fake profiles and AI generated content is staggering. Its really hard to find authentic women here, we out number the real ones 1000 to 1 probably. I have just about given up and will let my subscription lapse when it expires.
I feel your frustration there.
I dunno bud. I’m new to this whole thing. IMO this site is more legit than some of the “known†dating sites and all but one of the sex oriented ones. At least the ones I’ve tried.
They have greatly restricted access for nonnpaying people as well not monitoring the site for scammers
True points. Although even when you hint to people how to contact you, they still do not follow through.
After being stood up over and over, our confidence and self esteem taking hit after hit we become more and more cautious. Traveling used to be cheaper and people more willing to go a little further for a weekend playdate. Now its all.. you make all the concessions, cover the cost, or host, and generally accommodate them or they become toddlers screaming you are a fake because you wouldn't cater to their demands or ill treatment.
Great points. Even with me covering costs and traveling, there seems to be no action. I do get the hissy fit part.
@reallyready46 i think some feel entitled. As if since they went to the trouble of joining you owe them.They don't even make much effort, just send a dic pic and a demand then get upset you don't reciprocate.
@Littleredfun01 WEll the dick pics drive me crazy too!
Yes. I have had so many times were He picks everything for us to meet but it never happens. I either don't hear frim them night beofre or day of, they never show, they cancel frim nite befoee to mibs before, insult me, say im fake so they werent meeting me, or just close acct off. Sometimes same guy will come back and act or forget like they pulled some bs and wanna set up another meet. Im sorry what woman PRETENDS to be a bbw and call herself far and post pics, and is able to get fake tesitmonies?! 🥴
@clevebbw We wrote a piece on this topic...Ghosting: A Frank Discussion...it's in our Blogs...it's worth checking. A tender kiss, Jane