im going out with a friend next weekend. not a sexual thing . but i have been told he is bi. im a little nervous about telling him im gay now. should i tell him? and if i do how should i do it?
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The worst that can happen is nothing.
It really depends on how long you have been friends and how close you are with each other. Have you seen each other naked before? I'm sure you will know when the time is right. Go easy and I hope you can connect with your friend on a deeper level. Good luck.
We have know each other for a very long time. And yes I have seen him naked. His cock is almost twice the size of mine.
@YKnotMeTwo I would go for it. Wishing the best for you.
I wouldn't blurt out right away, "Hey, Bill, I'm gay." I would steer the conversation around to asking for his opinion on bi men and what he thinks may indicate a man is bi, then that you are starting to wonder if you might be bi or even gay. Play it by ear.
Cisco, below, has much more experience with men than I do. However, I'm not as confident as he about just coming right out to your friend the way he has suggested. I just think the cautious approach is safer. Neither of us, or anyone reading this, really know the details about your friendship with your friend.
Whatever you decide, I hope it all works out well for you.
i have kept it a secret for a long time. i have met a couple guys on here. but this is the only place i have ever blurted out im gay .
@YKnotMeTwo Understandable given the nature of the site and it anonymity. Doing so with a friend and in person is completely different. You are putting yourself and possibly your friendship on the line. Good luck.
I would go with the flow. If it seems like an appropriate time to bring it up, then do it. Of course it also depends on if you want your friend to know
thank you. i kinda want him to know. but i am married and still in the closet. but at the same time i know im not straight anymore