A Note to the Men Who Keep Missing the Point

Let me clear something up for the guys in this group who continue to act confused about what's going on here.

This is a swinger space.
It's built for people who actually live the lifestyle - openly, honestly, and with full consent. If you're monogamous, that's fine.... but coming in here questioning, judging, or side-eyeing how swingers move makes zero sense.

Here's the reality:

I'm a swinger.
My partner is a swinger.
We're comfortable with sharing.
We communicate, we're transparent, and this is our norm.

So when men who don't live this lifestyle wander in here acting shocked or bothered, it throws the whole energy off. What's even wilder is how some of y'all come in here pretending you're "open" just to cheat behind your partner's back - then try to lecture swingers. That's not how this works.

If you don't understand this world, that's okay.
If it's not your thing, that's okay.

But stepping into a swinger community with a monogamous mindset and judgmental attitude is unnecessary and out of place. You're bringing your own relationship problems into a space that has nothing to do with them.

Swingers aren't knocking on your door critiquing your marriage, your sex life, or how disconnected things are at home. So don't come in here critiquing a lifestyle you're not part of.

Respect the boundaries. Respect the community.
If you're not in this lifestyle, don't try to police it.

• SkyXRated