Hi there! I'm pretty easy-going, laid-back, but also work pretty much none stop running my own business. I'm pretty much always going until I pass out. When I'm not working, I like listening to records, going for bike rides and hanging out with my cats! I'm naturally dominant and love being in control of the situation. The control is much more mentally stimulating than physical for me, and enjoy it most when it's a mutually pleasurable situation. I started exploring kink with a former partner who expressed she thought I was going to be rougher. Once I understood it was as much for her as it was for me - I instantly started to get more curious. Since then, I've had some great experiences with kink and have started to find my place in the scene! As much as I enjoy being in control - my main goal is to please. I get off on my partners pleasure just as much as I do my own, and focus most of my attention is focused on my partner (or partners). I tend to look at sex and kink as two different things - sex as all about the end goal while kink is about the journey. It's the little moments that make kink so good and memorable, and to have as many of those moments of bliss with my partner. I've also been exploring non-monogamy and polyamory - so if you want to talk about this, I'd be more than happy to discuss! I have experience with hotwives, cuckholds, and MFM.

My Ideal Person I'm looking for someone who's open-minded and knows how to have fun. Someone easy to chat with, so we can hang out as well as have some fun.

If you're a couple who's into cuckholding/hotwife - I'd love to be your bull!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've done it so many times that I've forgotten how to type with two hands.

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