I find meeting people with great peralities to be quite the adventure, and if good chemistry exists I wouldn't mind things becoming more intimate. That said, I obviously don't just jump into bed with complete strangers so let's get to know each other a little bit first. I'm pretty open minded and as a result have rather flexible expectations. I tend to be oddly shy around strangers, but amazingly outgoing and social with people I'm comfortable with. . There's more to me than what's in my profile obviously but if I shared it all then what would we chat about? I have a few habits which others may not approve of - as I'm sure we all do - but I'm not judgmental about others so long as whatever your own peral habits are you don't overindulge them to the extent that you're a complete mess. . I'm not out specifically looking to avoid or attract any kind of long term committed relationship though if I find someone with whom I share an undeniable sexual and peral chemistry I may be willing to give it a shot - we'd have to discuss it. I'm emotionally stable and am only interested in meeting others who are as well. . I believe a good sexual experience is 60% dependent on oral, but that doesn't mean entirely genitals in the mouth; that percentage includes the kissing, nibbling, and licking that goes on all over the entire body. I enjoy foreplay just as much (if not more) than actual penetration. Having a partner wanting you... begging for you... their skin sparking at your touch... that's what I want during sex. And it goes both ways; as much as I enjoy driving someone wild with desire I'm not interested in people who won't return the favor. . Though it's a rather rare circumstance, In the throes of passion I CAN get pretty submissive IF the other per has a dominant streak. That, and "the touch." I would love to meet the right per to eventually assist me in determining my limits and expanding my horizons in this area. I am not looking for a per to smash my junk with a hammer and spit on me; I'm looking for that special someone who can make it an erotic experience. I know my romantic dom is out there somewhere... . You may have noticed I'm bisexual. This always opens up a can of worms at some point, so I wrote a blog post about it. Go read it if you're really that interested and let me know what you think - I'm rather proud of the post and feel it's well written. If you're curious about specific preferences feel free to ask me, I'm in chat quite a bit and am very comfortable discussing my sexuality. . I prefer to present myself as a puddle yet am as deep as you want to dive. Would you really expect your average stoner to be this articulate and well written?

My Ideal Person Assertive personalities and people who've read my blog step to the front of the line! I'm not saying you should message me with "hey let's fuck" right off the bat but if we decide to meet for drinks or something you should be willing to make a move if you feel a spark. I respond to all messages with any amount of thought put into them. Truth be told I like getting messages, so go ahead and take a few seconds to put a smile on my face. You already read THIS MUCH of my profile, you may as well.
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Just like pretty much everyone else using this site, I'd prefer a regular acquaintance over someone who I see once and never again. Please note that's a preference, not an unbreakable law. If we end up chatting and meeting and don't hit it off let's be adults and say so. I'm not here to waste anyone's time or get their hopes up and I'd appreciate the same.
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Please be as interesting outside of bed as in it. Fucking is fun, but let's face it there's more to life. I prefer to get to know my partner(s) before (and after) having sex so being able to hold a conversation is a huge plus. Humor and intelligence also go far in my book. Be it witty wordplay or a dirty joke you should be able to make people laugh and know when something is said in jest.
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Be able to make friends and/or have sex with someone without falling in love with them - emotional maturity. You don't need a heart of stone, just a level head. In the past I've lost too many close friends to one or both of us falling in love and things not working out. What I need/want in a relationship is different than what I need/want in a sex partner or friend, but in all cases you need to be able to make those same distinctions.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Clutch, papadocio, Soundgarden, I have over 300 seperate
artists in my playlist

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds, anything done well, let's find out together

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, personality

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Nope. I'll have fantasies about the girl at the gas
station, but virtually never about people I only see on
TV.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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