Have been many things in my life, now I am here. I have already mentioned my heart is fragile. So I am not looking for the love of my life. I honestly do not believe we have two Soul Mates, in one lifetime. So here I am , an ordinary woman who has experienced some incredible things in life. Now I am looking for a man who like me has been in love but either through divorce or death has lost his love. Fun, laughter, good conversation, and of course good healthy no strings attached sex. Having said that, do not get me wrong, I am not a one night stand sort of per. If you are interested in getting to know what makes me tick, laugh, disgusts etc. then be prepared to chat on here for a while. When I feel I can trust you and for that matter you trust me then I will either say, thank you for chatting it has been great But!!!!!!!! I will never just disappear without an explanation, I think that is rude as well as showing no respect for the per you have been chatting with. If after we have been chatting a while we both want to meet, then we will arrange a mutual agreed upon place and talk. I am not promising to go to bed with you on our first meet, nor the second....what I am promising is that we will both know when it is right and feels natural. Up front I will tell you I am overweight, and only 159cm tall. Nor am I beautiful or even pretty, however I make sure I look as good as I can when I am out with someone. There are many hobbies that interest me, but they are for you to find out. Just as your hobbies and interests will unfold as we chat getting to know each other. Will also mention now that if you are under 40 please do not contact me, it will only be deleted and not answered, I am not looking for a toy boy or to be a young mans'fantasy older woman, as interesting and fun as that might be, it is not for me. Also please do not send a photos of your genitals, if you do , your opening introduction will not be read, as you will have been deleted. Whilst I admit I am here to meet a sexual companion, that is not all I want. To be able to hold a conversation on varied topics, discuss books, music etc they are a large part of what I am looking for... a no strings companion/ friend and if that per is also well endowed/ small/ average does not make the man, it is how he uss it as well as his brain that is important to me. So, if you are looking for a fairly normal, average woman who has many layers to be pealed then contact me, but if I sound too boring or not for you, I wish you good fortune in finding the one that ticks your boxes.

My Ideal Person Have come to believe there is no such thing as your ideal person, as we are all human and have faults.

So, if you are a male (breathing), under 99, have a brain, like to laugh, enjoy a good conversation, like to take a lady friend out to dinner or lunch, go on barque's, quiet dinners at home sitting back and enjoying a good wine or a cold beer together, like going to the movies or just staying home and watching a dvd.

Then contact me and we will see if fireworks happen or just dam good laugh and interesting chat.