I'm just an average, normal guy who is looking for someone to hang out and fufill physical needs with. I'm a widower and and I really am not ready for anything emotional. I'm also a dedicated single father. At the same time I want someone I can be friends with. I have no desire to sleep with someone if I don't actually like them and I miss having someone to talk to. I am a 47 year old, a professional, educated, single white male with red hair, blue eyes, and am around 5'8. I guess I'm just an average guy. I lived in Charlottesville for seventeen years now and enjoy the city immensely. My hobbies include cooking, reading, history, and watching movies and theatre. I love all the restaurants, the Downtown Mall and of course the JMRL book sale. Sexually I am somewhat adventurous, and would hope that anyone that responds would feel the same or at least be willing to experiment. A long time ago I learned that the brain is the most sensual of all sex organs and hope to find someone that agrees. I really do believe that I have to like someone to want to go to bed with them.

My Ideal Person I'm seeking a woman, for friendship and pleasant erotic evenings. This could be someone I'd see every few days or just every few weeks or months. Ideally, I'd like to meet someone that I could get a coffee and stroll the Downtown Mall with, take home for a nice evening and consider a friend. Someone that I can talk to. I absolutely have to like a person to want to be with her. While I don't ignore the possibility of a serious relationship, I don't consider it as something that has to happen.

The woman I seek should be intelligent, confident, and with similar interest to me. She should have a strong libido and be proud of it, and be somewhat adventerous or want to experiment. Physically, she should be comfortable with herself. Between 35 and early 50s, race unimportant.

I hope to hear from you soon.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Sorry, you have to ask first.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A remote wilderness spot, Fill in the blank

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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