Though I'm mostly looking for friends/companions/servants, I am not opposed to gaining a new lover or two, if it comes up. I have had plenty of selfish lovers, and am not interested in another of that sort. Please know that I am only interested in lovers who ENJOY making love to women, and, very big Women, in particular (if big Women aren't your thing, you're reading the wrong profile, please move on)- the affection, the massages, the prolonged arousal and generally pleasing Women however They are pleased. IMPORTANT HINTS: IF YOU DO NOT READ THE PROFILE, AND NEITHER KNOW NOR CARE WHAT I'M LOOKING FOR, DO NOT BE SURPRISED WHEN I EITHER DON'T RESPOND, OR RESPOND WITH AN ATTITUDE THAT DIRECTLY CORRELATES TO YOUR INTELLIGENCE LEVEL. Also, I cannot possibly decide whether or not there is any chemistry between Myself and anyone I have not met. I will not meet for the first time in a private setting, nor will I allow anyone into My bed at any time during that first meet. Call Me old-fashioned, but I am only comfortable becoming sexual with people I can also converse with. I describe within this profile some of My sexual tastes so that you may plan ahead, see whether Our styles may be compatible, etc, but I'm not into cyber-sex or really much talk about it at all until after the first date/meet/whatever you're comfortable calling it. If you are unable to treat me like a Lady, I will assume you are not a gentleman, and the getting-to-know-One-Another process will come to a dead halt. About Me: Long (waist-length) reddish-brown hair w/ gorgeous blue eyes. Considerate, but brutally honest. Up-front, direct. Know My own mind, and respect the same. I like movies out&in, board-, computer-, card-, word games. Coffee and conversation. If there's honesty and communication, basically I'm a pretty laid back Per. If I discover that I was wrong, I am the first to admit it and attempt to atone, if possible. If I was not wrong, I will maintain my defense and haven't the slightest care about the consequences. I like to cuddle. I'm slow to warm up, but I do get hot in skilled hands. I like long, slow massages, My neck, shoulders and breasts kissed and licked, and to be finger- or toy-f***ed while I stimulate My clit. After I get off, I like to be pounded; fast and violent. When I am sated, I become... romantic? Thirsty? Indulgent? At any rate, I love to roll balls around in My mouth, then lick My way to the head slowly. Then, I like to lick around, teasing, before taking a bit of the head into My mouth, then a bit more, then more until it's all the way in. I prefer not to kiss on the mouth, and I don't like to receive oral, but love to give it when I'm comfortable with my partner(s), and when they deserve it. *note. Please keep in mind the Slow-to-warm-up part, and don't come at Me like I'm about to jump right into bed with you& just shove your c0ck in My mouth. Be a gentleman, you might get somewhere.

My Ideal Person Depends on if male/female/couples.

Please be aware, I am 42 years old. I have been sexually active for 28 years, and I know what I am attracted to. I have nothing against young, short, foreign or obese men, but I usually do not find Myself attracted to them. Everyone has their own tastes/types. Mine are fairly broad, IMHO, but I do ask that you fall within them, or very close. I don't want to waste anyone's time, or My own. Please do not pursue Me if you are not what I find attractive, unless you seek nothing more than friendship/travel buddy/etc.

Only total honesty. (CLUE: THAT MEANS NO MARRIED MEN UNLESS SHE KNOWS- I don't care if she approves, but if you're married or attached, either I speak with her or W/we don't play. Period. I will not be the cause of her heartbreak.)

Also, MEN MUST have been born between January 3, 1963 and August 18, 1975 - No exceptions. Women just have to be legal

~~~ I am seeking:

MEN:
*Local (w/i 30 minutes of Joplin, or willing to travel).
*Waistline between 28 and 42 inches.
*Height between 5'9" and 6'9",
and should be open-minded, patient, romantic, and have a good attitude. Bi-sexuality not required, but is a plus. Even if you are not a submissive, you should have little to no aggression within you. Assertive, confident: GREAT. Violent, too-rough: NO!

WOMEN and/or couples:
*Local (w/i 30 minutes of Joplin, or willing to travel).
Men should fit My ISO for single males above, Women should
*Weigh 130-250lbs +/-. I like plump but not a big deal.
*Height 4'9"-6'0"
for friendship, playing dice/board games/computer games and having coffee, perhaps a bit of occasional travel. I'm open to it becoming sexual or not.

submissive manservant(s) who will have duties as butler, valet, masseur, jester and pleasuring Me as well as an occasional Friend or two. you MUST have a TRUE servant's heart, desiring only My pleasure in whatever form that may take. I prefer either an experienced servant or one who is very serious, very motivated, and very eager to learn quickly. PLEASE do not think that My softly, gently, lovingly spoken commands are any less absolute for their tone.

~ Note: I'm not a snob, but I just don't feel comfortable conversing with anyone who wouldn't pass 7th grade English. Spelling can be slightly off, if I can make out the meaning. Fair grammar and at least SOME punctuation are pretty important to Me.
Traditional first dates (dinner and movie where I will observe the public behavior of a potential mate, friend or servant), then on subsequent dates: receiving/trading massages, threesomes, foursomes, group sex, orgies. If you really want to meet Me in real life, invite Me out and/or ask to be screened for My service. Endless messages and meaningless comments will not get you anywhere.

Best Features:
My eyes and My integrity.

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
Toby Mac, Barlow Girl, Switchfoot, Mercy Me, DC Talk, Newsboys

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Yes, Jeff Goldblum. His dry sarcasm, great looks, and high
intelligence.

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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