...like the kind you really, really want to fuck…… ;) ----- Update (20 April 2017): It's Con Sea!!! We'll be at: Great Philly Comic Con (Philadelphia), Awesome Con (DC), Comicpalooza (Houston), Wizard World (Philadelphia), Dragon Con (Atlanta) and Baltimore Comic Con. Always looking for hot, geeky, nerdy, sci-fi, gamer, cosplay couples and single girls.. Did we mention hot...? ;) - We'll also be at NYC Comic Con and Walker Stalker (NJ) - but those are our family cons... you can still come say hi.... :) - We live in the DC area - but travel for comics, cons, cosplay... and fucking ;) - ----- We’re a really tight and happy married couple – knew we would stay together forever right after meeting each other. We’ve been together now for 6 years – wish we would have met sooner, and been together longer, but that’s just the way life is. He’s former Air Force, with a tech background/cool futuristic job, and also a Ph.D. astronomy student. She’s a (smoking hot!) lawyer, who has traveled and lived abroad. Both of us are sci-fi, fantasy, horror, gamer, vampire, comic book fans who love conventions and costumes and all types of geeky, alternative stuff. Introverts by nature, but with a dark, wild side as well. We consider swinging one of our favorite extracurricular activities ;) We’ve been in the lifestyle for about 2 years, and had a great time together. As gamers, we think we’ve “Leveled-Up” quite a bit in the time we’ve been playing…. ;) In fact, we decided to re-write our profile recently because we realized that the old one barely described us anymore. At this point, our strong preference is for single girls or full-swap couples. MJ is bi, so if we’re with a girl, it’s fun for her to play with the girl and our male half (who is straight). With a couple, we like full-swap because – in all honesty – less than that gets frustrating for us. Whatever we’re doing, we want both of us (and everyone else) to have a really, really good time. So, for example, we’re not really into “girls play, guys watch”. For others that might be fun, but at this point – for us – both of us want to play. We’ve been to Tabu many times, and a few Sinnergy parties. We like cosplay and costumes, so we enjoy the dress-up/themed events. Sometimes lately at Tabu we’ve been asking ourselves “What does someone have to do to get fucked around here?” :) No – literally… we ask each other that :) Again, we get that there are a lot of ways to play without full-swap, and we appreciate that. Offers to do other things still flatter us. But, for us, a proper fuck is the end of our quest….And then we go home tired and happy…. And fuck again for bonus XP points :) Our boundaries are essentially defined by having respect for the girl or the couple we are playing with. We think it’s really important that girls should feel completely comfortable, and that the guys (in a couple situation) should have mutual respect for each other, and also value what is being shared. So – what works for us – is for the girls to have “girl talk” before we play, to make sure we know where everyone’s lines are. Not that we can’t (and don’t) all talk too… :) And, we also really want to know what people think is hot, and what their fantasies are, because we’re open to a lot of things. One rule we have is condoms for sex (not blow jobs). And, while it’s not impossible that we’d do different rooms, we’ve never done anything other than same room play – and that’s most likely going to be our preference. The longer we’ve been in the lifestyle, the more we’ve met people that we play with and also consider very good friends that we care about. When we meet couples, we like tight couples – who are really connected. And if we have other stuff in common, as we frequently find, it’s a huge bonus for us. Not that we’re always looking for a lifelong friendship…. Sometimes we just want to fuck ;) Snootchie Bootchie Nootchies….!! Bonus points if you get that reference… :)

My Ideal Person Sexy, hot, cool girls (and couples) that are ready to play....

Some things we love in general - and think are sexy too: True Blood, vampires, cosplay, comic books, comic-cons, science fiction/fantasy, industrial music, video games (XBOX), tats, goth clubs/nights (like, Grand Central, and Orpheus), aliens, Jay and Silent Bob, Japan, zombies, heels, and stockings... we think it’s sexy when girls leave some clothes on sometimes… if you like any of these things too, we've got even more in common! (And by the way, if you're going to DragonCon, or any other comic/Sci Fi con, shoot us an email, and maybe we can meet up there in costume!)

Sane…. Sane is very good. Hot is also very good. So is cute…. We like cute. Someone who actually wants to meet up… Like, AFK and IRL. We’ll accept your sexy selfies… But, we do want to see the real thing, up close and personal. Someone who is down to Earth (or at least knows where Earth is…), quasi laid back, accepting, and not into drama. No drugs – that’s a hard stop for us.

A good sense of humor and slightly alternative persuasion are huge pluses; so are tats, piercings, adamantium claws, mutant powers, and any variant of being a geek, or anything else that makes you not completely 'normal'

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
VNV Nation, Cruxshadows, Lindsey Stirling, Stabbing
Westward, Aesthetic Perfection, Soundgarden

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Threesomes, Handcuffs/Shackles

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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