Look, I'm really just an easy going 51yr old gay man who for 22.5 yrs were in a marriage, with a Man. we Loved each other very much, 5 yrs ago his health declined and in Feb. 22.5 yrs to the day, we met, he left me after a long hard battle. I'm OK, I just need to meet some guys, Have a lot of sex! making up for the years I did not. No I was not a SAINT, but I was pretty good. Now I don't have to be I was a top for the majority of those yrs. which is what happens when 2 bttms fall in Love. ONE has to sacrifice, so I did with Love. But now I am ready to embrace my old ways of service. I learned as a it is good to be of SERVICE!, so I say to you ASK NOT WHAT YOU CAN DO FOR ME< BUT TELL ME WHAT I CAN DO FOR YOU!

My Ideal Person U R.......Gay Straight and/ or Bi or Tri (anything), Single, Married,U &/or UR Friends, Daddy &/or Son(s), Dom and/or Subs, Simple or Complicated, Frat Boy or Trailer park, Jock or Nerd, Masculine NOT Girly, Boy Next door or Nasty Whore TOP or VerseTOP or Verse, ( I top well, but hv done 4 22 years, really want to be TOPPED! But not a deal breaker if u are all MAN! U R ....BB or Covered, 5.5 -15+ Cut or Uncut, Thick & Hard, Wide & Long, Deep and Deeper, Small or Big *****if Small Please Know how to use what u have & or compensate******* Adventuresome & Daring, Cold & Caring, Rough & Ready, Calculating & Spontaneous, Funny & Serious, Hard & Tender. Public & Private, Desperate & Begging, Confidante & Cocky, Bossy or Timid ,Arrogant Asshole & Momma's perfect boy,Most of u know the time and place 2 b 1 or the other or all of the above & when it is not only appropriate but desperately needed. Basically if you are a MAN who Likes/Loves Men, & WHAT R BODIES R CAPABLE OF! LET'S MEET!!!!

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
All The DIVAS

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Latex, Fisting, Massage, ask me,, ASK I'll Try It

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each, the whole package

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Yes Johnny Depp, Brad Pitt, Matt Damon, Ben Affleck, any
Chris; Pratt, Hemsworth etc, each have different attributes,
but all are manly and would take control and then while in
control flip the script. Same with the Ryans; Reynolds,
Gossling, and the other, I forget his name!

Have you ever had cybersex?:
Not yet, but I definitely want to try it.

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