I am not really sure what to right here. My wife and I are new to this whole thing still, we are both a shy. We are in more of an open relationship then a closed one, but with that said we also have our rules. I am 6'1" a little plus sized ;). I am the father of three lovely so they take allot of my time. I am looking for a discreat either alone or with my wife. But as a couple depends on if we can get a sitter. I would like to learn to be in a more dominant roll, my wife is not in to BDSM. I am also looking for someone to help me with some of my fetish fantasys. Feel free to contact me and chat I will do my best to chat back. I hope to meet some fun people and break out of my shell and help with my healing.

My Ideal Person I would like to meet to the right person/couple for occasional fun can be one time or on going. There is no specific type that I want, I am not looking for a relationship (friendship, yes) I am happy with my current relationship.