Before you message me please stop and read this please. "I have been off this site for a while now because ive got tons of stuff going on family wise, please just give me time till everything is settled down on my end please". Im am a bi sexual female, 36 yoa, long wavey redish blonde hair, 5'4" and 140 pounds. I am looking for males 30-45 and females 30-45 who are drama and stress free, d/d clean, and mild bdsm play but not required but always welcomed.

My Ideal Person I am looking for brains instead of a guy thinking with the wrong head. Women like to be approched on this site with respect and not pushyness. I do not and will not respond to anyone on here if you can not approach me with respect and manners. Were all adults let's act like one. My age limit is 40-55.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A rollercoaster, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Sadomasochism, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
No way. I only want skin on skin.

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