We're a mature couple married for 20+ years, the s are heading off and we're looking to have some fun in our lives now that we finally have lost the little anchors. Interested in meeting/introducing ourselves to others for fun, friendship, and a bit of spice in life. We're looking for FWB, not just sexual encounters, if we just wanted that I'd hire it, I have no qualms, want someone who also thinks picking up the phone on a Friday night and going out for a drink or dinner or ANYTHING is also good for them, we lived 20 years of our lives as "X and Y's" parents, we want to have some fun, planned and spontaneous! This means to actually meet NOT just chat back and forth even if just for cup of coffee at some WaffleHouse. Friends actually talk face to face, the thing you do with people over an iphone makes them an acquaintance, not friend. I want someone to actually go out dancing with as a friend when the husband refuses to go out to the dance floor because "he can't two-step to that crap!" Wingmen types apply, PLEASE!

My Ideal Person We're looking for someone (someones?) to actually meet and socialize/do things with as well as a POTENTIAL sexual relationship, so if you're just into meet and swing, great for you but pass us by, not interested, and if you're the opposite where you want to sit here and stare at the screen to see how many clicks you get but never meet anyone, well pass us by. We generally like meeting safe, some Saturday afternoon for coffee or some other public and full place, but we want to meet and see if there's a potential for REAL friendship, not just exchanging flirts and cyber smileys.

While I want a sexual encounter with a woman, I have to be honest, I have told my husband this and he basically SPOILED me by talking dirty to me about it during sex, and he's more creative and erotic then half you ladies out there are on his worst day.If you're looking to stuff your face between my legs from the start or looking for a woman to do the same, wrong place to look. While open to both these with time, key wording is "with time" and slowly working up to them. Rob told me a story during sex about how he sees a first encounter with a woman and me where he takes elements I enjoy and turn me on and adds new elements of contact with a woman slowly..

He takes the woman to the far side of the room and begins kissing her, turning her around for me to see her as he slides his hands up her sides squeezing her lightly to push her breasts together. Then starts to undress her highlighting her breasts by drawing his hands towards them and circling her areolas lightly with his fingers, drawing the tips towards the center of her nipples puffing them up while i watch. I start to rub my legs together watching which is how he knows I'm turned on and looking for more. So he slides his hands down her stomach unbuttoning her blouse and opening it for me, revealing her breasts cupped lightly in his hands for me, then unfastens her bra letting it fall to the ground I see a perfectly enlarged nipple sticking out from her breast. His hands disappear behind her back and he begins massaging her back with one hand (he knows massages turn me on make me comfortable) and with the other unzips her skirt letting it fall to the floor. Her panties fit snugly but he pulls on them slightly from the back, to highlight her trimmed bush through the white lace material. Taking her hand and lightly kissing it he leads her over to a chair and asks her to sit, she does and he holds his hand out to me helping me out of my chair. Stepping to my feet he puts his arms around my waist and kisses the back of my neck whispering something in my ear, he draws the zipper on my dress down dropping it to the floor as well, I step out of it while he slides the straps of my bra off my shoulders and drops it as well, my nipples are fully erect and a golden brown against my skin, he whispers to me "she's staring at your nipples, I think she likes staring at your tits as much as you do hers, yes, I noticed you can't take your eyes off of them." He finishes undressing me dropping my panties to the ground leaving me in only black stockings naked in front of her, I look at her face and watch her eyes scanning my body and looking at every inch. I clasp my hand behind my back around Rob's cock, itshard and poking into me from behind (I love sucking cock. Gets me wet as hell.) He walks out from behind me and guides me to sit down. Holding his hand out to the other woman he helps her up and picks up a length of ribbon he placed on the table earlier. He instructs her to hold it in her right hand clenched and twist her wrist so it wraps up around her hand holding it in place, then runs it behind her back feeding the other end to herleftt hand.Then asking her to sit, he helps her down to her chair. She holds the ribbon in her left hand and twists her wrist a few times basically tie-ing her her hands to her own sides held by the ribbon she herself is sitting on. Then he open his pants and pulls out his prick standing behind her, he's hard and his thick cock makes my mouth water. He waggles his finger at me motioning me to step towards him, thus stepping towards this woman he coaxed to tie herself up on the chair in just her panties. He holds his prick over her right shoulder against her neck and asks me if that's what I want, I shake my head yes and step right up to the woman and bend over taking his prick in my mouth brushing my lips against her neck, she tilts her head away exposing her neck, I kiss it softly then flick the tip of my tongue against his cock before sucking his head in between my lips. Her nipples push out as she draws a deep breath, Rob stops me and takes his cock from my lips and comes around the front of the chair, "fair is fair baby, she's tied up, shouldn't you be just as constrained? " he pulls a scarf from the table that was sitting with the ribbon and blindfolds me, "now that's even, you're both bereft one of your senses...." and steps back behind her. I reach for his cock to put in my mouth but he backs away slightly, drawing me closer to the woman on the chair. I bump against her clumsily, and he holds an arm out to steady me and guide me, he pulls me closer forcing me to climb up on her straddling her lap, placing a hand around my head he lightly tugs at a fistful of my hair (I LOVE that) and guides me towards his cock, I lean into her pressing my breasts against hers as I do, her nipples feel hard against my skin and I inhale his prick into my mouth turned on by her tits against me.I suck his dick heartily until I get my favorite first reward, sweet drops of pre-cum touch my tongue, sweet, and sticky. I push his cock out my mouth with my tongue and rub a few drops of it against her neck before running my tongue up her neck tasting him on her skin.

the story goes on sucking him off and shooting him on her then kissing it off, transitions to her laying her head in my lap while he performs orally on her, then ends with me straddling her stomach while he fucks my ass from behind while I masturbate pressed against her bush and belly, lightly touching her as I do finally cumming on her stomach before pulling his prick out of my ass to shoot it on to her tits and stomach, he interlaces his fingers with mine and we rub the cum into her pert breasts. Would have typed the rest of the story out full in detail, but finding it hard to do in detail as I'm typing one handed by now with the other teasing my clit

THIS is what I want for an encounter with a woman, not "I just wanna eat your pussy" No offense to those who want that, but that's your cup of tea, not mine, (at least not as of now.) I'm certainly open and wanting that once he warms me up and puts me in a mood where I am turned on to exploring the woman directly or her me, just not from the start. So I'm looking for a woman who will work with Rob and listen to him, he knows what gets me going. If this type of scenarios is your thing then you're a perfect female encounter for me, if more assured you want pure female on female and wish to be aggressive about it, not going to be very interested, all kinds of people who want all kinds of things out there, someone wants an encounter with a woman to happen the same way I do, and willing to wait until she shows up, but if this is you, for the love of God IM me!

NEWSFLASH-Bi-Curious means I'm open to touching and exploring women having sex or while I'm having sex. Yes, I KNOW for sure I enjoy cock a LOT. If your idea of approaching a Bi-curious woman is "I wanna strap one on and show you how much you want to be alone with me" BUZZZ! WRONG APPROACH, just turned me off. BiCurious (at least to me) you want to masturbate while watching my husband fuck me, and maybe play with my tits or fuck my husband while I masturbate and play with your tits, (even better!) not a night alone where you will "rock my world." Great if you want that, but not here, and really getting tired of liars who claim the same as me and then last second come clean. Honestly women are becoming more brazen and bigger liars than the guys, congratulations! We've achieved equality as LYING PIGS.

Interested in straight women who like watching or don't mind being watched! I would consider that FAR preferable to a "bi-curious" woman who wants to fuck me with a strap on!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Being watched having sex

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois

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