40s guy looking for what he can't seem to find where he is. Causal NSA discrete encounters only. I will respect you and the life you've built and expect the same in return. Communication is super important to me. To be honest, sex is the easy part... finding a person who accepts me for me, a person who I am able to be completely open and vulnerable with... someone who I feel emotionally safe with is paramount to me. I am married and have no intentions of leaving her... it is complicated. What I want is a casual friendship with a sometimes lover. I workout consistently 3-4 days a week but have a dad bod. If your looking for washboard abs, I'm not your guy.

My Ideal Person I want a person who is comfortable in their own skin who is ok with who they are. There is nothing wrong with wrinkles, stretch marks, extra weight, etc... There is nothing more attractive than an unapologetic woman who is ok looking her real age... I have found that woman who look real are real... conversely, a woman who looks fake usually is fake... just sayin'

I am interested in women over 40