I'm a happily married man in a relationship with a beautiful older woman. Unfortunately we have a sexless relationship and sex is very important to me. I'm not looking for multiple partners or to jump from bed to bed. I am looking for someone in a similar situation. I am a huge movie buff and we could start by just meeting up and seeing a few movies together and see where things go from there. We would need to be very discreet because I would never want to hurt my wife. I'm not perfect but I am definitely funny and fun to be with. Even though I am in my 40's I am a bit juvenile and ish at times. (But only in a fun and playful way.) I love to live life to the fullest and hope to find a like minded match.

My Ideal Person I would love to find a woman that absolutely loves receiving oral sex. I love a woman that will just let me please her and not worry about me. I'm very open minded so toys are fine.

I really appreciate someone with an off-beat sense of humor that enjoys deep talks about life, religion and other thought provoking topics. I need to be mentally stimulated in addition to physically. I have never had anal sex with a woman but I'm open to almost anything. Except multiple partners. Just good one-on one.

If you can be open minded, discreet and can just enjoy the moments together. I would love to get together.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Slave/Master, Making Home "Movies", Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Fisting, Massage, Squirters

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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