Well folks, we've had a chance to play just a bit. Its been enough play for us to learn more about what might ideally work for us and what we'd like to do moving forward. Hello to all! Thanks for checking out our profile. Its a bit of a work in progress so we may tweak it from time to time but the theme remains constant; We are a horny middle aged (minor experience) bi curious couple seeking a versatile bi/cur couple or female for warm, fun friendship and hot passionate sexual forays. We are an outwardly conservative professional couple. We can hold our own in most any environment but at heart we are down to earth, open and easy going, casual homey types. We have a huge sense of humor, broad ranged and with few limits. We are the furthest from PC. Respect and discretion is still as important to us as honesty and candor. Openness goes a long way to establishing a mutual level of comfort so we try to be an open book and we look for reciprocation. In private we are perpetually horny, playfully experimental and generous lovers. We have enjoyed a fantastic monogamous sex life for more than two decades. We never stopped playing or experimenting. It took us years (and becoming empty nesters) to move from fantasy to action and actually share our bed with others. The limited experiences that we have had taught us that we really want a friendship on which to base our pleasures. We have no interest in brief cold one off's. Nor do we enjoy the sex based scenarios that lack some element of sincere caring passionate interactions. For us it has become clear that if we can't be good friends; we won't be good lovers. It's an important part of the comfort level that we need. We believe in quality first. We arent looking for volume. No judgement on the fast movers it's just not for us. Our ideal situation would be a relationship where we can mutually enjoy sharing thoughts, laughter, desires and ultimately lust and pleasure. For example, come and share a great tasty home cooked meal, swap sexy stories over cocktails and exchange lusty glances. Slow dance in candlelight? Perhaps enjoy a massage? We are still nervous about all of this. Experience taught us to be flexible. We dont fixate on any one particlular scenario or expectation. We prefer to stay fluid, without any pressures. We are open to a vast array of scenarios, one on one, two on one, hetero, bisexual both, whatever floats all our boats as they say. And always at a speed that all are comfortable with. "She" is a sexual dynamo. No limit to her orgasms or her commitment to giving pleasure...which also gives her orgasms! She craves the intimate touch of a woman. She really wants to extensively explore her bi side. Safe to say that she craves another woman as much as any 3some or 4some...perhaps more. She really enjoyed having two men, she's not done exploring that either! She enjoys watching him with another woman or man though our experience was limited. "He" is a naughty man. Perpetually horny, passionate about giving and amazingly versatile. He can adapt to various roles of play. He is a sexy dominant take charge man who can also be her submissive "ride 'em hard boy toy" that she loves to direct and use. He too has explored bi curious /same sex play while with her and he isnt done following that path either. We have experimented enough to know that we are comfortable with our bi curious tendencies and we enjoy watching each other explore. Its not easy to find such like minded couples so we are putting our hopes with AFF. Age, experience and looks are not as important as the right attitude and honest open approach. While not unattractive, we aren't perfect hard bodies. Bikini pics would not help sell us. We are probably average for our age, hopefully we will find similar. Its the head space that matters most so come as you are! If you can't relate to any of this then we probably aren't on the same page = not right for you. Our ideal person / couple is honest playful discreet non judgemental/ open minded with great sense of humor, good intellect and sexually charged. Great sex is mostly in the mind so tell us whats on yours! We enjoy casual relaxed atmosphere, wicked humor, not politically correct at all! We love to cook for our guests, good conversations, outdoors, especially camping. We prefer quiet nights at home vs out to a club etc. Jeans & sweats suit us more than formal attire. As for moving forward, we don't move fast. Even with covid our time seems to be consumed with one thing or another, call it life. One of us may read an email soon after receipt but it may be the end of the week before both of us can sit down and hash out some replies. We may not be able to meet the following weekend or that month even but we do stay in touch. There are some times of the year that are busier than others. On the upside, we have found that it never hurts to continue to exchange emails as we try to get to know each other. Lots of interesting information can be gathered on the way to having fun. So that's our pitch for now, seclusion cant last forever so lets chat! Stay healthy!

My Ideal Person The wife requests that all males be clean shaven, no beards, goatees or moustaches but preferably not bald. Honest playful discreet non judgemental/ open minded with great sense of humor, good intellect and sexually charged. Great sex is mostly in the mind so tell us whats on yours!
We enjoy casual relaxed atmosphere, wicked humor, not politically correct at all!
Love to cook, good conversations, and hopefully make friends in and out fo the bedroom.
Love the outdoors, camping etc.
Prefer quiet nights at home vs out to a club etc.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A remote wilderness spot, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, An elevator, A hotel room

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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