UPDATE: as of Fall 2023, i am back to being a regular member again, so it may be challenging to contact me. sorry . what can i say about me.....well, i am a romantic at heart, a lover of women, a dreamer, an achiever, a listener and a talker. i enjoy many types of activities from parasailing to a crowded concert (NIN, blue man group, U2, and more) to a quiet candlelit dinner for two or three. in my daily life, i work a full-time job (pays the bills), teach martial arts in the evening (teaching is what i truly love to do) and i am a dad to 3 wonderful (who are now all grown and out of the house). BUT, i am missing something in my life. i am missing that spark, that fire, that sense of adventure and wild-abandon. i have been very patient in my life waiting for that excitement and thrill to find me. NO MORE....i am now actively seeking out the fun, the intensity, the joy, the pleasure, the adventure...the spice of life. will you join me in my search? who knows maybe we can find it together. there are untold levels of pleasure and excitement for us to discover. let the adventure begin....

My Ideal Person a friend, a lover (females only, sorry guys that is just not my thing), a kindred spirit.....my wants/needs in another range from someone to spend casual, relaxed times together to someone with whom to explore intense, mind blowing, toe-curling sex -- definitely someone interested in new experiences and in making their fantasies come true. i am not too particular about looks, but let's be honest physical attraction is a factor in sexual chemistry. i definitely want someone who is fit, height and weight proportionate as they say. i want someone who is comfortable in their own skin and who is confident/assertive with their own wants, needs, and interests. all in all, someone with a good personality, who is fun to be around, and who is positive in their outlook on life. race, income level, and relationship status are not important to me.

well hurry up and contact me already. what are you waiting for? you know who you are! you know you want to!....hehehe

What are your favorite musicians or bands?:
no time go into detail now...more to follow

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Breast/Nipple Torture, Clamps, etc., Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Creativity/Kinkiness level

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
too many to list.....more to follow

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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