My name is Mike I am an over the road truck driver. Not looking for a relationship just someone to play with. Prefer someone closer to my age 45+ I am looking for some one to take control of play where I am giving up complete control once the type of play has been established. I am interested in spanking, Medical Play, bondage once we get to know a play partner. When it comes to spanking not looking for welts bruises but the nice red bottom. I prefer a longer spanking rather than a short hard spanking. When it is over bottom should be red hot and sore for a day or 2. I really like it when spanker helps me get undressed and then dresses me in my pj's for my spanking. And if they like to give their a bath that is great too. Very much into medical play, Enema plays Wet sheet packs.

My Ideal Person the ideal person is a top who knows what they want. can understand I was married to a woman who did not like sex so at 55 years old understand that I am not experienced at sex.

the age and sex of the person I am playing with are not important.

the ideal person is also someone who understands that a truck driver is a job that is very lonely and gets very little interaction with other people and is craving it.

I have even enjoyed interaction were a play partner just lounged or cuddled in our pajamas or naked and watched a movie.

They also understand that I have only had 1 sex partner in my life when we got married at 47. And in 3 years only had sex mabey 10 times. And that was because the wife didn't like it. so it isn't an important part of my life.

But with the right partner wouldn't be turned down.

Also, someone who understands I am looking for people across the country to play with and has no issue with that.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, A remote wilderness spot, A swimming pool or hot tub

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Mutual Masturbation, Blindfolds, Leather, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Ability to be discreet

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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