We want to increase the lifestyle choices of mature people by introducing them to our circle of swinging friends. We have a swinger Group for people who are of our age and still active, also for younger people who like us. Since November 2005, we have been contacted by over 500 couples, have confirmed 200 as genuine; & we know that 100+ are definitely serious swingers because we have accepted them onto our party invite list. We have also played with a lot of them! Although Mike is very experienced, much of that has been gently helping beginners to achieve their erotic fantasies through his very successful branch of Forum magazine’s society in Winchester during the 1970s. Although we are serious swingers we sometimes meet very nervous new friends, and after a socializing period, it is foreplay only with the other couple, then completion with own partners. We are also part time naturists, and like visiting spas; our main club is now Eureka, near Brands Hatch in North Kent, which is part conventional naturist, part swinging naturist. We are into anything that gives gentle pleasure to our friends, but not time wasters, single men and picture collectors. We also entertain and accommodate at home, and have a 300 year old Sussex farmhouse near Hastings. Log fires in the winter, BBQs and swimming in the summer. Mike is straight, Bada says she is semi bi (still not quite sure what that means, though the general idea is understood!!). Mike is tolerant of other peoples kinks and bisexual men, but does not want to be touched by them. We swing together, never apart. We are not employed by any club and have no financial interest in any of them whatsoever. We support clubs that provide what we want; a beautiful, safe and erotic place to meet our friends, where unpleasant people are excluded. AFF rightly discourage contact info in the first emails so we cannot give you our details here, but will do so in our 2nd reply to your contact. If you cannot contact us direct, you can contact us through our many swinging friends, especially jonjo808, duvethuggers and tomassex2, here on AFF. We are not renewing out AFF Gold subscription, and will return to paying them only when this site is improved. If clubs are not for you, we can meet you wherever you want; The Lamb Inn at the Bexhill end of Pevensey marshes is a nice place for an inexpensive, high quality & quiet meal, while we all decide whether we fancy each other enough to want to have some fun. If you live north of Hastings, we like the food at The Piltdown Man in the village of Piltdown. We know good restaurants to the east but none are inexpensive. Beauport Park and the Powdermill Hotel are our best local eating places. The advantages of meeting at a club are; Safe place. Friendly relaxing atmosphere. Other people to meet if we do not click. Playrooms available if we do. Entrance to Eureka costs is far less than a hotel room, £20 for the man and the woman gets in free. Mike has had many relationships with bi ladies, including marriage with 5 s (they are still young, he says it proves his equipment still works!) (it does not, he has had the snip but it still squirts a lot of lubricating fluid!). He likes female bisexuality very much, as the further responses show. If we send you a picture of 2 women; they are Bada, and her sister who has been on AFF as RandyRose69. The picture was taken on a recent swinging holiday in Provence, visiting some wonderful friends. BTW: we organize swinging holidays to our French home near the Med and Spain and intend to return soon with some British friends; anyone for a swinging Ryanair trip to Perignan? We have set up a new group on AFF, as a central forum for mature swingers in south east England. To find it from the top toolbar; Groups – World – UK – Sussex – South East Swingers Forum. Pictures; we are not collectors and our only photos are on our profile page. We don’t have the time for endless fantasy emails, being more into meeting and touching real people; and helping our friends do the same. We are clean & safe; unless we know & trust the sexual history of our friends, we practice safe sex for yours & our protection. That said, we are bareback with known and trusted friends; if you want condoms at all times, just say so. Our M S N will be given once we know you. To eliminate the irritating, boring and time wasting single men pretending to be a couple, we insist on video phone and webcam or telephone contact to verify that both couples are genuine; It is nice to see the faces (and sometimes other parts!) of our friends; it also confirms that the 30 year old athletic couple we plan to meet, is not in reality a 65 year old, bedridden 25 stone unwashed single man! Before meeting, we always exchange both landline and mobile numbers and have our women chat on the phone. Mobiles are needed because someone usually gets lost in the dark with a flat tyre, or goes to the wrong pub. Since swinging is a “strictly by consent scene,” we promise you there is never any pressure or upset if any of us do not want to play; but we can still be friends if that is what you prefer, and you will still be invited to our parties. We have known many swingers who are not sex partners; & are happy to have their friendship only. We have a new profile with more information on us; MadDutch2, here on AFF. Finally, to prove that swinging works well for couples, and that it can form very deep love bonds like ours; we were married in September 2006. If you'd like to take this further, please email us. Mike and Bada

My Ideal Person We are a very tolerant couple who like all swinging people, especially couples. I am physically attracted to women only, she is attracted to both. Above all, we especially like strong minded polygamous bi women with high sex drives and a good sense of humour. We often find older women the most attractive, because they are more experienced and less inhibited than younger women and have such beautiful mature bodies. We will gladly exchange phone numbers when we are confident you are genuine.

Most of all, we seek good couples for our parties, weekends at home and swinging holidays in France. We only accept nice people who know how much fun a good scene is, and how to make that fun happen.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
22 years ago,
Driving with 2 bi female friends, in the South of France near Agde.
We were in a Ford Transit, all on the front seat.
I was driving, they started playing with each other, one had an orgasm.
Unable to join in, I drove off the road till I found a narrow footpath.
For 2 hours, we licked, sucked, caressed and fucked.
I forget how many orgasms they had, but I still remember my 3.
A large courgette also came in useful!
I remember one of my friends asking me to pull my cock out so she could put her tongue into her friend; so I slipped my cock into her from behind while she did.

No one else came (as far as I know). If anyone had, we were so turned on we would have invited them to join us.
Not a fantasy, this really happened. I still get a hard-on remembering it. Care to feel my hard-on? Please do!! I may be 63 but I am still very active.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
The beach, Anywhere, actually!

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, We're a couple in a very strong, loving relationship. Sex wi

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Not turned on by famous people; ordinary people are far more exciting.
They do not need to act for the media.
My lovers do not need to be beautiful; their beauty is inside them, and I love their enormous libidos.

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