I'm a good looking, 38 year old male, average to fit with a semi-athletic build (a little stocky maybe), short brown hair, 5 foot 9 inches, and have an average size cut cock. I'm happily married (except for this aspect I guess) and plan to stay that way. Therefore, discretion is an absolute must for me and am happy to provide that in return. That being said - I obviously can't entertain and am not really into the hotel thing - although that's not totally out of the question - so, I will definitely give priority to those who can entertain. AS A TOP - I can be as assertive as you would like me to be or more gentle - whatever your preference. AS A BOTTOM - I'm generally submissive in nature and fantasize about being blindfolded and bound the entire time we're together - from the minute I enter your house - to the minute I leave - after we get to know one another first of course. I'm very laid back and would be open to most things you want to do with/to me. As a bottom, I'm typically attracted to a daddy/bear type - and prefer men with a larger build - but not too large. Someone that's assertive and directive in a respectful way that's very physical and into a lot of touching, passionate carressing, squeezing, and kissing is ideally what I'm looking for. AS A CROSS-DRESSER - I love dressing up in women's lingerie - I have a pair of thigh high pvc boots, platform stilletos with 6 inch heels, stockings, garters, opera length gloves, corsets, panties, bras, a wig and love to wear lipstick while dressed like this. Not sure what more I can say at this point - I don't have a lot of experience but a little in each of the roles described above - so I'll need you to be patient with me - if I connect with the right per/people I like to think I could be well worth it. Hope you're out there - don't be afraid to contact me if you have in the past and haven't heard back - I would love to hear from you. Cheers, SM

My Ideal Person As a bottom, I'm typically attracted to a daddy/bear type - and prefer men with a larger build - but not too large. Someone that's assertive and directive in a respectful way that's very physical and into a lot of touching, passionate carressing, squeezing, and kissing is ideally what I'm looking for.