I cannot flirt, hotlist or message, so if you want to contact me please send a message. Don't assume that just because you message me, I agree to chat with you or even meet you, that I have to have sex with you. I don't have to do anything if I choose not to. That being said, I have a few rules for playing with others. Nothing major, but they are my rules, and I expect them to be followed at all times. The second I feel that you are lying to me, or misleading me in any way, playtime is automatically over. One of the first things I should tell you is that my being on this site is that I am here primarily for my pleasure only. This does not mean that you won't have a good time, but I do expect my needs to be taken care of above all else. Foreplay, passion, and just knowing how to treat a lady in general are what's important to me. In other words, treat me good, and I'll treat you better. [B][COLOR red]Sorry guys, I don't play with married men [/COLOR][/B]unless they are playing with permission, so please do not contact me. I also am not into men younger than 35 or older than 60. I do realize this is a sex site and not a dating site and am not looking for love or a relationship, I already have that, but I do expect common courtesy and respect. I am not looking for men who can only think with their cock. Your cock, no matter how big is only a small part of who you are. Impress me by being a per first, and as mentioned above, treating me the way a lady should be treated. Pictures: I know that some of you who play do not want others to know that you play. I must also be very discrete due to my job. However, before I will even consider meeting with you, I will need to see a RECENT picture of you. If you cannot or will not send me a picture, I will not even acknowledge you. Digital cameras are cheap, and most cell phones now have a camera on them. Taking and sending a picture is not that much of a chore. Last but not least...my place is never available for playtime. If you do not have a place to play, and I have agreed to play with you, you will have to provide a decent hotel room for us to play in. I do not do cheap pay by the hour motel rooms, but at the same time do not expect you to book a 5 star hotel either. Just something nice, and in a location where I will feel completely comfortable. If I come to you, and the first thought that goes through my mind is if my car will be there when I leave, I will not stay, and will let you know why. So those are my rules...it may seem a little bitchy, but most of you have no idea how many emails I get on a daily basis from guys whose letters were typed by their cock. Any and all emails that only say what you want to do to me, how good you will make me feel, or if I take it in the ass on a first date will be deleted, and you will be ignored. Seduce my mind, and my body will follow. Cheesy, crude, one liner emails generally get laughed at, and tossed into the delete pile. Once again, it's not the size of the cock, it's the size of your brain, and how you can stimulate mine.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, The beach, The middle of a park, A hotel room, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Participating in Erotic Photography, Fisting

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
A little of each

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