[COLOR blue]Seeking a good mental-physical connection Ideally I would like a long term relationship with the right per.. I am open to having a friend & lover, possibly friend with benefits. I will not have multiple partners. No casual sex, no one night stands, no "quickies" I'm a nice guy overall, but can get a little nasty behind closed doors. The soft sensual touch, sensitive to a woman's needs, gentle yet not wimpy either. I am a little slower to the bedroom, and not trying to "score". I like to start slow, relax and get comfortable with each other, tune in to each other on various levels. Good conversation, a nice dinner, possibly a romantic atmosphere, or just a simple cup of tea. What is important is starting with a mental connection, which could progress to some feelings, sparks flying, and then....who knows..... Spontaneous, being both fully present, in the moment, without worries, fears, expectations or demands. Accepting each other, accepting the situation and whatever may or may not happen. To me that seems to be a good way to start out. I like lots and lots of foreplay, starting out with some soft music, candles, massages, touching, caressing, ........ I love giving oral pleasure, I am skilled at it and know right things to do to get a woman completely turned on. I get very turned on by going down. I like to go one step at a time, to explore each others deep dark fantasies as they unfold after a comfort level and trust is established. [/COLOR] [SIZE 3][/SIZE][B][/B]

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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